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Are we rushing into things?

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Question - (16 December 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 December 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *omgirl10 writes:

I'm 16, my boyfriend is 18. We have talked about marriage and stuff and we have only been togteher for a year, is this like weird or un normal are we rushing into things?

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A male reader, thetruth357 United States +, writes (16 December 2008):

If I had it to do over again I would say get married young, because people used to be married by the time they were 18. Today people wait, but what happens they get diseases and they have multiple sex partners and they get into trouble in bars looking for sex. When I was young I woudl tear down a wall for sex. When men were young they would get married young and get plenty of sex. They didn't run around looking for sex. Not only that but men spend hours in bars and hundreds of dollars for some pussy. The truth is married men get pussy and they get it freely and all they want. If I had it to do over. I would have gotten married at 16 and gotten all the sex I wanted. Because the happiest times are with someone you like having sex. The worst times are running around bars looking for women. We used to get married young and if I were to say the people responsible they wouldn't post this. But let's say they are very powerful. They have changed the way we live our lives. When a boy is 16 he has to have sex. We need less sex as we get older. So get married young and have sex.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008):

It's normal to talk about it, me and my ex used to think of names for our kids! But as long as you don't actually act upon it right now then you have no worries.

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (16 December 2008):

rcn agony auntIf you have to ask the question, you already know the answer.

I'd wait a little while. With your age differences, and youth this is a critical time where he's growing as an adult, and you're growing into becoming an adult. The next year or two will tell if you're still wanting to move in the same direction or if your lives take separate paths.

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