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Archived questions from: 7 September, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My longest relationship lasted 2 weeks. How can I make them last longer??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6082 days ago

7 September 2007 (M) - I can't have a long relationship with a girl. I'm a 21 yr old guy who dates girls now and then but I just can’t stay with same girl I don’t know why?? My longest relationship has only been 2 weeks I really want to have a long relationship but I just ...

Any tips on how I should ask my girlfriend to take things to the next step?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6082 days ago

7 September 2007 (M) - I want to ask my girlfriend if she wants to take are relationship a step further wonderin if anybody has any tips ...

I cheated, and he wants to see me again. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

7 September 2007 (F) - ive been seeing a guy for about 3 months. he's really nice and genuine but im not in love with him. he tells me he loves me. the other night i was out with some male company, people who i have known a while. we weren't particularly sober, we had a...

I like this girl, but I'm nervous to talk to her. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6082 days ago

7 September 2007 (M) - ok this is how it is theres this girl i like at school but i cant seem to talk to her i know she isnt interested in me but i really like her any advice?...

I used to suffer from depression. Now he has gone off with my friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6082 days ago

7 September 2007 (F) - i was clinically depressed for five years, i was put on prozac (a medication) and councilling all that. i had a bad family life. then i met my boyfriend. we were realy happy, he helped me so much when i told him about it all and helped me get ...

It's been 4 years, and there's talk of marriage. Should I have Sex with him now??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 September 2007 (F) - I have been dating my bf for 4 years and we haven't had sex yet. We both agreed from the start that we wanted a strong relationship first. Earlier in the year he asked me to marry him but it was like a...oh yeah by the way...type of proposal. Nee...

I love him, but I know we're young. Can you help me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6082 days ago

7 September 2007 (F) - I am 17, and just starting sixth form. I have been with my boyfriend for just over three years, which is unusual, but we are both very mature for our age. We have been having sex for over a year, and although he doesnt stay over very often, when...

Should I call him or just wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 September 2007 (F) - Should I call him or just wait? Hi, I met this guy a couple of months ago. He's in the Air Force and left shortly after we met to a base in Japan. We've been in contact since then. Last week he told me he has received orders to move somewhere e...

Move in with him, or do my own thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 September 2007 (F) - Hi, I have been dating this great guy for 10 months now. He is everything I have always dreamed for in a man. when I met him last year he was so busy with coaching hockey and playing hockey and of course playing basbeall in the summer time. He ...

Should I marry her??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

7 September 2007 (M) - Dear Cupid: I met a girl two and a half years ago at my church. At the time she was 18 and I was 27 and we were both virgins. At first she was shy, but then she got my phone number from a mutual friend and started calling me on a regular basis ...

He said I will forget about the age difference once we give it a chance. Any views?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

7 September 2007 (F) - I meet a guy a month ago..who's 24 i dont think he realised how old i was ( 17) when he came over started talking to me and asked for my number, i wasnt sure of his age either. A few weeks ago he added me on facebook and he saw how old i was as...

How can I start up conversation with a shy guy I like at school?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

7 September 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid there is this boy I like at school but he's really shy and sticks to himself alot, and I talked to him and we seemed to get along but then he totally blanked me! I don't know how to start up a conversation again....

I think my boyfriend is becoming a little distant from me. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 September 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now. We're both 23 and we live together. He doesn't want to spend much time with me anymore. He works during the day and when he gets home he just goes to bed. When he's not at work or in bed, he goes to ...

Unsure about what I'm hearing about a potential boyfriend. What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

7 September 2007 (F) - ok first off i am dating a boy lets call him "j", well he seems like such a sweet guy, hes a sophmore in high school, i am in my last year of middle school. well my cousin goes to the high school, and she admitted that she wanted a boyfriend and she ...

It's only been a week, but I feel like I'm making all the effort. What do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 September 2007 (M) - hi basically ive been with this girl for only a week which might make you think why is he getting all worried but when i first met her we both just clicked and it was different from everyone else, the stuff she said to me and what i said 2 her it ...

He's 14 years older than me and in a relationship.... But we have feelings for eachother. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

7 September 2007 (F) - Hi i have fallen for someone who is 14 years older than me,at the time that i started to develop my feelings for him, i didn't know that he had a girlfriend. his girlfriend lives and works away. we have spent nights together, cuddling and kissing,...

Scared I will drive him away with my constant nagging!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6082 days ago

7 September 2007 (F) - Ive been seein this boy for 2 months, I really really like him, the thing is he is really laid back whereas I am more of a worrier! I know that sometimes my nagging really annoys him but I just cant seem to stop it or sometimes realise that i'm even ...

I want to continue a romance with a friend. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

7 September 2007 (M) - I have a a female friend which i knew since were kid,but we were never closed during our childhood days, three years ago we got so much attached that she always want me to call her on phone, but i rarely called her.she stopped seeing me or sometime ...

How do I ask a girl out when she spends all her time with her friends??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

7 September 2007 (M) - How do I ask a girl out when she spends all her time with her friends? She, that is, they, know I like her, and they say she likes me, but I don't know what to think. Her friends are the gossipy tye, and have a habit of stretching things to get a la...

He turned me down for sex and now I am paranoid he doesn't like me anymore!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 September 2007 (F) - My bf of 2 months turned me down for sex last nite and now im paranoid he doesnt like me anymore. I startd kissing him and he said 'no I dont want it' and I turned round and didnt talk to him for the rest of the evening - I was really upset as hes ...

I don't know if I can be happy for both of us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6082 days ago

7 September 2007 (F) - My 32 year boyfriend has everything going for him: he's funny, smart, attractive, physically healthy, with a decent job and a girlfriend who loves him. In all rights he should be happy but the problem is he isn't really living, merely going through ...

Does my boyfriend fancy his brothers girlfriend!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

7 September 2007 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for about 2 years but for some reason i get the strangest feeling that he fancys his brothers girlfriend. Hes always paying her compliments, sticks up for her and when im at work he always goes around to see her when im ...

I don't want to go on a trip, but I don't think I can back out...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

7 September 2007 (F) - Hi guys, I booked a six month trip with a mate last year, To be honest I was pretty unsure of going, as I like my luxuries and not sure I am going to cope backpacking and staying in hostels round Europe, plus my mate is not a really close fri...

2 of my friends like the same girl as me. Should I let them ask her out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5795 days ago

7 September 2007 (M) - Hey, theres this girl shes really nice and i like her bt its not that simple 2 of my friends like her aswel she like me and one of my other mates who likes her.Should i let my mate ask her out or ask her out myself ...

Condoms turn me off but my new girl insists I wear one. How can I get my erection to last longer with one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

7 September 2007 (M) - after about six months of dating me and my girl stopped using a condom, we have just stopped dating after about a year and a half. after not using a condom for that long i cant get back in the swing of things and the new girl im interested in ...

I missed the boat on my flatmate.She's met someone else, it's killing me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5945 days ago

7 September 2007 (M) - Hi y'all i'm a 20's male Basically, i've been living with my housemate and a few others in a house share for around a year now. She is without a doubt one of my closest friends, and over the last six months there has been a lot of sexual t...

How do I aproach a girl I like in college? Any advice please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6082 days ago

7 September 2007 (M) - hi,im atracted to a girl in my college and she is attracted to me too but i dont know how i can approach her and she keeps avoiding me.can you please help me because i want to win her within the shortest time possible.please................ ...

How do I get my girlfriend to tell her mum about our online relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

7 September 2007 (M) - hi i need some advice i have been seeing this girl online for 2 months now and we are planning to meet eachother soon the only problem is that she cant come and see me just yet because her mam hasnt met me yet(she doesnt even know her daughter(17)is ...

Why am I stressing over him not calling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

7 September 2007 (F) - I think Im a mental case.....I have this great guy whom I see every weekend (he lives an hour away) and he has called me every single day since we have been together (3 weeks officially dating).....he is now working 2 jobs for the last week and has ...

How will I know when I'm ready to have Sex with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

7 September 2007 (F) - hiya all i have been with my bf for a month now and we have dun pretty much everything apart from have sex.We are both still virgins, and he seys hes ready to have sex and hes being really good about it and is not pressuring me at all, but how will ...

I feel like he isnt commited to me and the children keeping his options open for encase someone new comes along. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

7 September 2007 (F) - Hi I really need some advice LONG story sorry. Im with my partner over over 4 years,he is 40 im 37 we have a 2 1/2 year old daughter,I have 2 children from my ex marriage which ended 51/2 years ago I was married to an alcholic I was with him 16 y...

Now that he has me, he doesn't try anymore! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

7 September 2007 (F) - Hi, I am 18 and I have been dating this new guy for about two months now. I have known him for six years previous and when we were not dating we spent more time together, were more affectionate towards each other ect. But now that I am his ...

I love him, he loves me... But he doesn't really know who I am!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

7 September 2007 (F) - ok, i have done something slightly insane - and i know its insane but i want that to end and to become reality now but i think i have gone too far for it to over be what i want it to be. let me start at the start and i apologise in advance for h...

I want to marry her, but she's always breaking my heart. How can I keep her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

7 September 2007 (M) - i have a bab which i love her so much and i want to marry her but she is alway break my heart, what do i do to stay with her?...

How can I rid myself of this jealousy before I kill our relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

7 September 2007 (F) - I separated from my husband almost 18 months ago but have to remain in the same house due to financial pressures. Just after we separated I became more than friendly with a man I'd known from a distance, he told me he too was separated although I ...

Does this man love me or his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

7 September 2007 (F) - Hi, I have a boyfriend, we been seeing each other for 3 years now and he had a relationship before we met. I have 1 child with him and he has 1 child with another girl, they stayed together when we met, 5 months back they were not together because ...

My girfriend has a small gap in her front teeth, and when she gives me head, my frenulum gets trapped there and it tugs, and it hurts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

7 September 2007 (M) - This might sound really stupid but it's a serious problem for me. My girfriend has a small gap in her front teeth, and when she gives me head, my frenulum gets trapped there and it tugs, and it hurts! I don't want her to think she's bad at oral sex ...

When we were doing it I made a horrible 'windy' noise from my privates...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

7 September 2007 (F) - Last night was so embarrassing!!! I stayed over my boyfriends (I've been with him a month) and when we were doing it I made a horrible 'windy' noise from my privates - I was so embarrassed and he stopped and didn't really know what to say!! I'm so ...

Is it wrong to date my step cousin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1766 days ago

7 September 2007 (M) - is it wrong for me to date my step-cousin? i have this step cousin of mine that i have had strong deep feeling for and chasing after for more than a year and an a half. the good thing is that she knows about and confronted me about. what she say was ...

Is my girlfriend as interested in me as I am in her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

7 September 2007 (M) - Is my girlfriend as interested in me as I am in her? I am a freak when it comes to the bedroom. I imagine my future with to be the same. However, I have been dating my girlfriend for almost a year now and I love her very much. However, I feel ...

Should I be upset or just be happy to spend time with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

7 September 2007 (F) - The guy i dated all summer and i are now back at different schools. We got very close over the summer and then it was time to leave. We did not say we were seeing each other exclusively because we r at different colleges. He asked me to come down ...

I am 14, and having trouble finding love, I am gay and I haven't opened up to anyone yet, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6075 days ago

7 September 2007 (M) - Hey, I am 14, and having trouble finding love, I am gay and I haven't opened up to anyone yet, what should I do?...

I upset my boyfriend because I told him I'm scarred of where he lives. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

7 September 2007 (F) - i really upset my bf to the point he cried i was telling him on the phone about something that happened in his area (a girl was killed coz she was a goth) and said im scared to go to his. he then started going on about me toughing up and how i need ...

My Boyfriend hasn't texted all day. Is this normal?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

7 September 2007 (F) - Is it normal in a relationship for your partner to have the odd day where they don't contact you at all? My boyfriend hasn't texted me at all today you see. I have this romantic ideal where the guy beats a path to your door all the time but I ...