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Archived questions from: 24 September, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Want to be with my ex but he is dating a very rich person now, how do I compete with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

24 September 2007 (M) - I want to be with my ex but he is going out with a very rich person now. How can I compete with this? My ex has always seemed like someone who is looking to be taken cared of but knows the value of work. I'm not poor but I have struggled now and ...

I'm having trouble getting started with relationships!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

24 September 2007 (M) - Trouble getting started with relationships... I am a 20 year old male. At the age of 20, I have never been involved in a relationship. The farthest I have gone is I kissed a girl (a friend about a month ago), but she's not interested in a ...

We've been dating for 5 years, has he avoided to tell his parents because he's ashamed of me? We're from different cultures.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - I am a white female who has been dating an asian guy for 5 years since I was 16, we met in college and I love him very much. However he still has not told his parents about me I always ask and he says he will tell them but he still hasnt, and im ...

I know I'm terrible at trusting men, but this time do I have a reason to be concerned?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - I have a terrible time trusting men. Even when I meet a man that seems good on the surface, I'm always looking for the hidden strings. My current b/f has done a few things that were "shady" in my opinion -- he was flirting with a friend of mine ...

How will I know when I'm in love? And I feel like the guy I just met is my bf and my bf is my bestfriend, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6065 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - dont quite know how to put this down... i started university last week. i met these really nice guys n from the min i saw this one i was sort of drawn to him. hes not good looking or anything. we went out a couple of times and i feel like ive known ...

Since my last question, things have gotten worse! Please help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

24 September 2007 (M) - The situation has just got a whole lot worse!! Hi some of you may rememeber me i wrote this question about 2 days ago, heres the link: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-not-very-good-at-what-to-say.html anyway read that for more info, basically...

How do I let this guy down gently?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - Here's my situation. We've been a couple for one week, and already my boyfriend is planning our marriage! First date, he transitioned from "I'm so dating into the right family" to "I'm so marrying into the right family." At first I thought I heard ...

Does the colour of hair have an impact on a girl picking a guy for a boyfriend?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

24 September 2007 (M) - does the colour of hair have an impact on a girl picking a guy for a boyfriend?. I have ginger hair and iv never had a gf. i know im not as confindent with girls as some of my friends are. ...

He says sex feels like a routine, what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - last night my boyfriend asked if we can slow down on the sex .. we live together how do i just ignore my drive whilei am in bed beside him? he said it feel like routine ... ...

I have reason to believe that I cannot trust my man, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

24 September 2007 (M) - i have reasons to belive that i cant trust my boyfriend. but i love him too much to let him go. what shall i do?...

My bf is pushing his child on me and my family. How can I talk to him about this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - my boyfriend of three months is pushing his child on to me and my family. im 24yrs old if i wanted a kid i would have one. i cant talk to him about this because he ALWAYS takes it the wrong way. i do care about him alot... how do i stop this with ...

I'm getting mixed signals and don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

24 September 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I broke up after 5 years together. We lived together for 2 of the last years. I moved out to california and she was all excited to come out too (we were both gonna college there) Then out of nowhere, she dumps me "cause she ...

Me, my boyfriend and my brother - Is there something wrong or am I looking into this too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - I am having a problem with my boyfried we have been together for a year and a half he is dad to my son who is 4 and we have everything a relationship probably most desires. Stability. Any how lately he has neglected me emotionally. I feel like he ...

My abusive wife and I are splitting - I want to tell my sister-in-law that I love her! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

24 September 2007 (M) - i have been with my wife for 12 years now married for 5years of that now . she has given me black eyes and more we dont have kids thank god. it been 4years now and iam still in deep love with her sister i have tryed to keep away but all that has ...

I'm 18 and no longer attend my old school. Can I approach the teacher I had a crush on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - ok so i'm an 18 year old girl and i have the hugest crush or whatever you'd call it thing for what used to be my 10th grade science teacher who's about 15 years older than me. I know it sounds so typical but it's not, i get so excited when i run ...

My guy broke it off w/ me b/c his mate got upset. Now he's seeing someone who's a "safe bet." What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - I wonder if anyone can help me, it's a bit complicated. I was seeing a guy, we get on great, have great sex and we are still very fond of one another. The only thing is I went on a few dates with one of his very good friends before we got it...

3 times in 9 months my boyfriend's family has had problems, and he backs away from me. Will he be back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - This is the 3rd time my b/f has done this to me. We've been together for 9 months. His mother will be telling the whole family that she wants a divorce from his step dad. I know this is worrying him alot. Each time he spends more time on that ...

There's a new girl I'm interested in, but she takes ages to reply to my messages. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

24 September 2007 (M) - There's a new girl I'm interested in. I think she's interested in me as well, and I'd really like us to start seeing eachother, even though we haven't been talking for very long... I'm just not sure how to go about it. She isn't very good at ...

He's seeing a girl who lives over in South Africa... But I don't want him to go because I like him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - i am in love with a guy who is in a realtionship with a girl in south africa! the thing is we have been seeing each other for the past few months and now he is going to see her in october and i dont want him to go! he says he has deep feelings for ...

I like a girl but she likes this other guy. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

24 September 2007 (M) - hi i have a crush on this girl at skool and she likes this other guy wat do i do??????????...

Is it possible this guy likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6065 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - recently, i joined a guitar class. there is this guy i think i like. he is 4 years older than me and in polytecnic. he likes the clerk at the centre. i dont want to tell him i like him because i am scared he will not like me and i would be too ...

I have no success with women. Any advice please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

24 September 2007 (M) - Hey everyone, I have to resort to these matters, because it has long surpassed what my best friends can do and I don't really think I can hold my mentality for much longer. My problem is, as it's probably common in here, I have no success with ...

How do I tell her I have fallen in love with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

24 September 2007 (M) - how do i tell the person that i have fallen in love with that i am in love with her??? how do i tell her that i love everything about her. i can't stop, nor do i want to stop thinking about her. i love and am in love with her....