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male
age
36-40,
*nNeedOfSomeAdvice
writes:Is my girlfriend as interested in me as I am in her?I am a freak when it comes to the bedroom. I imagine my future with to be the same. However, I have been dating my girlfriend for almost a year now and I love her very much. However, I feel as if I want to enjoy her body more than she wants to enjoy mine. I don't mean to brag either but I am not an ugly person and I know she enjoys having sex when we actually do it. But, we only do it two - six times (exaggerating) a month. She says she has moods during her ovulation where she just doesnt get the feeling of wanting to do it. But this feeling can last about a week and then she gets her period so we dont do it for another week after that. What can I do? I have spoken to her about it for the last 5-6 months and we are still in the same position..
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): You mean is she has horney as you? Prob. not. Women want love before sex. Sex comes after feeling loved and not just for thier bodies.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): She probably feels as though you like sex with her more than you like her. Don't make sex and her body such a big issue..you say that you feel you want to enjoy her body more than she wants to enjoy yours..you're basically saying you want sex from her. You see her as a "body to enjoy" You're a freak in the bedroom, well she obviously is not so maybe you should go try to date a wild girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): HiI feel from a womens prespective that a women usually goes off sex with her guy is down to whats going on in your relationship.Do you tell her you love her?Do you praise her?Do you hug her for huggging sake not to lead to sex?Do you support her and listern to her?If a women has grievances with her man sex will be the last thing she wants from him?Men and women are so differant,does she tell you what she likes in bed?Are you doing the same routeen in bed she may be bored?You state on here 'im not ugly' do you act like your gods gift?She may feel you love yourself too much?There is something going on dont forget after the 1st year that LUST feelings can go for most people and she is settled into this routeen?Write a letter to her asking her 1st what maybe wrong with the relationship then explain you miss the closeness sex brings to your relationship and can you work on it?x
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