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Archived questions from: 27 September, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Does my teacher like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 334 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Okay first of all i would like to say that i DO NOT find my teacher attractive in anyway but i would like to know if he finds me attractive and if i should have a word with him or stay away... as i do not want to be like his teachers pet like last ...

I want neutral conversation, but he feels distant...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 335 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Okay, So my boyfriend who I have mention has been stressed with college and having to spend a good amount of money on nessecary purchases. I have been trying to give him space, I feel that maybe if i dont give he will want me more?? I want to ...

He's been giving out his number to others! What should I make of this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - Well I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months. Just spent the last month working out boundaries, like do we want open/closed relationship, etc. About 2 weeks ago we decided together that we would be able to have fun with others in clubs ...

I met this guy who had not long come out of a serious relationship. We got on quite well, but now he's ignoring me!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 335 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Guys feel free to give me your opinion..please! I met this guy who had not long come out of a serious relationship, we really liked eachother and met up a few times. He text me all the time, called late at night, always wanted to hug me/ see me and ...

Is my bf gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - So, I have been dating my boyfriend for a couple of months and I am thinking he is gay. (My gay-dar is perked, my friends think he is gay, and the sex thing...he loses his erection, can't come, and seems to prefer doing it from behind- just certain ...

I'm worried she wont want me back, because she has many male friends! Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 334 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have split up we have been together 2 years and 8 months i have been very jealous in the past because she met this guy on the internet who has told her he loves her, she insists she doesnt feel the same and is just a friend i am ...

I like him a lot but scared he will like the prettier girls! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Ok, so there is this boy in my class who I really like. He likes me too, but he also like the new student in our class. She is from Cuba, and although I wouldn't consider her much prettier than me, she is wayyy more "developed" than me, or anyone ...

How can someone be so obsessed one minute then not care the next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 336 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - I met a guy about 2 months ago, we instantly clicked and fancied each other but he had just come out of a long relationship so needed to be single. We met up but it although we agreed to be friends there was clearly a lot of sexual tension! He ...

I'm a geek and I like him! Do I have a chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 201 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - hi i like this boy but im a total geek and im ugly and that i feel like theres not a chance with this boy because he barely notices me and he always hangs out with the popular girls and they are much prettier than me.he has spoken to me but i feel ...

So miserable... My ex-girlfriend is all I want in the world. She cannot be mine, and it hurts. What do you think?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 330 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - Please help me. Today, I'm so, so miserable about everything. Call it an off-day if you must, but whatever it is, it's dragging me WAAAY down. It's just over 3 months since my girlfriend and first love broke up with me, due to (as she claims) ...

He says I have changed him in a bad way because he had to take on too much responsibility and clean up after me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - I am 26 years old. I have been with my fiance who is 31 for 2 yrs coming Feb. We had a child after 4 mths of meeting eachother. After that happened everything started going down hill. First off, when he met me I was a party girl, lost my job, was ...

My friend asked out a girl and she said no. Does that mean he has no chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - my friend likes a girl and he aked her out she said no but, she saying no to everybody. does that mean he has no chance?...

Is my boyfriend of a year cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Is my boyfriend of a year cheating? Me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over a year and I have known him for about a year and a half, when we were first dating he cheated on me. He told me right away and we have gotten over that...

I am 17 and have been cheating on my boyfriend with a 31 year old

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 319 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - i am 17 and have been with my boyfriend also 17 for 3years, my feelings have changed and i love someone else. i have recently been seeing a man of 31, he is lovely and doesnt seem his age. i work with him and have stayed over his house 6 times ...

First he says he wants kids, then he doesnt. This is so cruel!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - my boyfriend is constanly talkin about our "future " and says he wants a little girl one day then the next time he says he doesnt want kids .. what am i supposed to say to that he builds up my hope just to crush it ifeel its actually quite cruel ...

I like another guy and am thinking of breaking it off with my BF

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 335 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - My bf seems too be the cause of all the problems. Firstly, i like another guy, and he wants too meet me and kiss and stuff. And he said he liked me. So i said im guna finish my bf anyway. But thinking about it this other guy is a BIG player and i ...

I am kind of seeing my married, older boss and want to take it further, sexually

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - My boss at work flirts with me a lot and I know he likes me and I like him. But hes married with a kid. He is not married to the mother of his daughter tho, but he is married. We have made out and fooled around a little. I know that if we went any ...

I said all sorts of silly lies when we were first dating, should I fess up now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - I love my partner and we are due to get married soon. Problem is that I lied to him during in our first year together. I told him I had gotten an audition for a film part (Naturally I didn’t get it) that I have seen all these people in concer...

It is so painful to be friends with my ex, but I really want her back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - OK here goes. Me and my ex broke up about 5 months ago and i feel im doing everything to push her further and further away. We were together for four years. She recently started university and she told me she had just kissed one guy but loves th...

He keeps ogleing other women

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for two years. We love each other but he needs other female attention and it hurts my feelings. I understand that all people look at attractive people but he takes it over the edge. He stares at attractive women to ...

Today is the day I want to tell my friend how much I care for him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Its been a long time coming and i have decided today is the day that i'm gona tell my 'good friend' (as he calls us) that i have feelings for him. but i dont know how to start it off. we have known each othe since aug 2006 and we become really go...

She's keeping us a secret!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - She's keeping us a secret! I'm involved in a long-distance relationship. We're not kids (both in our 40's). We started contacting each other a year ago, when she was separated. Her divorce was final a few months ago, I am now separated. Yes...

I am afraid my boyfriend will fall out of love with me while I am away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Hi Aunts, I am off to Europe for a few months soon and when I am away the plan is that my boyfreind is gonna find us a place to live and we will move in together. I am just worried that he will change his mind cause his not with me, and I know ...

My boyfriend is perfect... but he hardly ever calls (or texts, or emails for that matter!)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 334 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - my boyfriend of four months is perfect in every way, but he hardly ever calls me.most of the time i have to contact him to make arrangements and he is always very happy to meet me.he says he is just not good at phoning people and even worse at ...

My bf already has a son, but I want to have a child together. He says that he doesn't want another child, though!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Hi there everyone... I'm with my boyfriend nearly 2 years now. I'm 30 and he's 33 and already has a young son who is 9 but I feel like I want a baby of my own with him. He says he doesn't want another child cos he has a son already... I'...

Am I wrong to ask her to cut all contact with her ex? Did we get together too soon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - Hi, Im after a nuetrals point of view on my dilemma so i thought i would ask you.Ive been going out with a girl for about 4 months now shes 22 im 28 just before i got with her she was still in a 2 year relationship but going through breaking...

I like going out, he's a homebody! How can we make this work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been living together for two years. We have always had different 'lifestyles' but it has started to become a problem. I am very social and like to do things and go out with friends. He likes to stay at home. Anyone have ...

We've broken up and gotten back together so many times, I don't know if he will really stop his sideline tricks!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 334 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Hi I apologize for this question being so long in advance.I met my bf last year septemeber,he got my number and called me,at this time he had a gf which i knew about. She lived in another town, so he only saw her on Sarutday nights.We rarely...

I think my guy has everything.. worry if he is using the "not ready" thing as an excuse for a casual affair or not?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - I have been seeing this guy about three months, in the beginning he came on quite strong, telling me he wanted to take care of me...etc...pursued me. We knew each other about four years, he got out of a terrible breakup last year...and finally the ...

He told me he pleasures himself while thinking of three specific ex's of his!! I just feel as though I'm not enough for him, but should I really worry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Hey, I recently had a conversation with my boyfriend about what he masturbates to. He said that he masturbates to me most of the time. And then he tells me sometimes porn and sometimes his ex-girfriends--Paige, Allie, and Kathleen I automatically ...

It seems as if I wind up in many bad relationships. How do I break this vicious cycle?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - It seems as if I wind up in many bad relationships. First, it was just the friends that liked to cause a little trouble. Then, friends that project a certain image they want in a friend on me and when I don't fit to what they want, I'm insulted. ...

I will only move in with him if I know he's committed to me, but he won't commit!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - I am in a long distance with my bf. We have talked about moving in together within a couples of months. The thing is that I did not want to move in with him until we had something solid (sure about our relationship). I talked him that I wanted to ...

I'm hanging out my my crush tomorrow even though I have a bf! I don't know what to do!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Okay guys, I love this sight for your answers to my questions - Now PLEASE Help!!!! Okay, today I was in a store with my mom and I saw my friend whom I haven't seen in a VERY long time and in that duration of long time, we both had a thing for each...

Was my teacher flirting with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - could teachers hit on you and flirt with you? i had this in the past and they were female teachers i had had. they would touch me on the shoulders, arms, wrists, hands, etc. one of them tried to get very close body contact with me and mostly they ...