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Archived questions from: 9 September, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I'm a student and he knows that my financical situation is unstable and he's got a well paid job.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - Is this the Austrian way of doing things or am I being foolish. I'm so confused, dating a guy for 3 months. Everything is okay. He text me sms me, not much callings but when I ask him to call he usually does. The problem is, when I'm home back got ...

Should I chuck him or keep holding on and waiting for some miracle to occur?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - I'm 16 years old and have had the same boyfriend for about 1 year and a half. At first it was really lovely, and then it just went sour. We have our good days, but when it gets bad, like some stupid argument over who buys what, we shout and scream ...

I have been with my boyfriend for thirteen years. I recently feel as if I want to get married and start a family but he doesn't...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for thirteen years. I recently feel as if I want to get married and start a family but he doesn't, I am unsure if I should call it a day or just carry on waiting....

Why is he acting this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - Ok, this is going to be complicated. I went out with this boy for 3 months, and I broke up with him because he wasnt putting any effort into the relationship, at all. It was always me phoning and seeing him etc. Anyway, we were good mates for w...

She never calls me, I always have to call her first yet she calls her friends with no problems.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

9 September 2007 (M) - dear cupid Hope you are fine. I have a girlfreind who I love so much, but the problem is that, I don't know if this girl loves me as much as I do her, this girl does not call me at all, I have to call her everytime... even if I send her air time... ...

I'm going crazy. Should I call him or is it too soon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend (27) and I (26) have been dating for two years. Two weeks ago, he told me he's not in love with me anymore and that he needs a break. He was everything a girl could ever dream of in a man. He truly could not have been a more perfect ...

Is he ready to finish with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6080 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - I have a boyfriend and when we are together everything is really great. The one problem is we don't see much of each other, when I make an effort to meet him he is really vague towards me and doesn't call when he says he will, what to do!?...

I have been dating this guy for three years now, and he says he is still not ready for a commitment.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - I have been dating this guy for three years now, and he says he is still not ready for a commitment. I am confused, don't you think that after three years someone should know their intentions! He has told me that he loves me, a few times. What do I ...

My friend said stuff to her on my computer (my MSN) so she thinks I'm a complete weirdo now.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

9 September 2007 (M) - OK so I've got a bit of a problem and it's bugging me big time. A couple weeks ago I went on a few dates with a girl and I really liked her, usually if I'm with a girl my intentions are pretty obvious, but with her it was different, I really liked ...

Is he taking me for a ride? Do you think I can learn to trust him??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - I got together with my boyfriend (who is 16 and I'm 19) while he was with another girl. They had only been going out for two months and we felt that what we had was really special. He's dumped her now but now I'm scared he'll do the same to me. ...

I have never dated and never been kissed by any other guy but this one, don't know the rules or the signals and it has been 12 years since my ex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - Hi, can I get some advice please? I am 45 year old mother of 6 kids, no small ones any more. Bad marriage, only boyfriend was my ex ever. Fell for a guy three and 1/2 years ago who is 17 years younger, so I never did anything - just am too old for ...

I think I may be on the verge of a relationship with a girl who has just turned 18. Is it respectable to date a girl with this age gap?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

9 September 2007 (M) - Hi, I'm 23 years old and I turn 24 in a couple of months. I think I may be on the verge of a relationship with a girl who has just turned 18. Is it respectable to date a girl with this age gap?...

I think I may have got myself into a difficult situation and I need advice.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - Hi, I think I may have got myself into a difficult situation and I need advice. A few months ago I came out of a long term and very long distance relationship. It had been very difficult and I was crushed when it ended. Nearly two months later I ...

My boyfriend has hit me in the past and I'm stupid for taking him back but I just can't let go.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - hi, I'm really stuck in a relationship I don't want to be in no more, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years and he has started taking drugs cocaine, I've told him if he carrys on I'll end it but I don't think he cares. He has hit me in the ...

He wants to date others but misses me when we're on a break...is all this worth it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - Here is my problem...My boyfriend who I've been with for almost 5 months now is having feelings of wanting to date other people. He's had these feelings for a month or so and now we're taking a week "break". I miss him so much though, and for some ...

Don't want lose my best friend, if I go out with her brother she'll hate us.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - i am seeing a boy whos two years older than me he has a girlfriend who he has been going out with for nearly 3 years he said he would spilt up with his girlfriend for me because thats how much he loves me the only problem is that this boy is my ...

Apart from the age difference, he goes to uni soon and I'd only see him once a fortnight. I'm in a dilemma.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6080 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - Hey I am in a bit of a dilemma. The thing is there is this guy who really likes me. Hes 19 and im 15. He says he really likes me but im not to sure about him. I think about him a lot and can occasionally see myself with him but am not to sure. Ano...

Don't know whether I have the right to be mad but seems to me he's playing games with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6080 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - I'm tired of a lot of things. I'm talking about A LOT of things. How is it that certain boys become somewhat of a weakness for me? I was sort of seeing this guy. I guess I say that because when we hang out... and he acts a certain way with me. He ...

I saw my boyfriend's "Ohhhhhh" face and it was really gross...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - I saw my boyfriend's O face and it was really gross.. I was on top and I had the blanket over me cuz it was really cold and I took it off just in time when my boyfriend was getting off, cuz he was making this awful face, I have never seen before. ...

I feel really bad on her boyfriend and wouldn't have got involved if I didn't want to really make a go of it with her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

9 September 2007 (M) - Hi guys. Just wondered your take on this. I'm in an affair as the other man. We are very much in love an it would be amazing for both of us if she were available (bottom line is she aint!!!). Now they aint married an no kids an she thinks she can ...

He says that he's not sure about getting married anymore. He wants to be sure before we even get officially engaged.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - Hello, about a month ago, my boyfriend asked me to marry him. It was very low key (there wasn't even a ring) and he said that we were going to redo it later on to make it more official. I was really excited of course and I can't wait to start my ...

Had a really good first date on saturday but havent heard from him. Should I leave it for him to make the first move?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - Had a really good first date with a guy on thursday night. I text him once on friday nite and once on saturday night... it is now sunday and i haven't heard anything from him although it was his idea to meet up again. Shall i continue to persue him ...

Me and a friend got together at a party. Now he hesn't made a move. Should I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6080 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - A few months ago at a party me and a good mate got drunk and ended up together all night, hugging and talking, and we hooked up. Before the party we'd both admitted to liking each other, and we're good friends and know each other well. We always ...

How would you feel if your boyfriend had several female friends calling him throughout the day?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - How would you feel if your boyfriend had several female friends calling him throughout the day?...

I love him, but he has a 2nd girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - we go to diffrant schools and he got a second girlfriend so that he will fit in then told me he wouldnt do aything with her but i found out he made out with her i love him and dont wanna break up with him cause i know hes having family problems ...

My friend spoke to her on MSN pretending to be me saying some perverted stuff and now she won't talk to me! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

9 September 2007 (M) - What can I do here? Alright I went on a few dates with a girl and things were going great, but now she ignores me completely, and although I like her I can accept that and move on. But the other day my friend (who was very drunk) was on my MS...

What can I do to keep a girl interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

9 September 2007 (M) - Why can't I keep any girls interested? It drives me nuts, I'll go on a few date with a girl, and usually they seem to be having a really good time and will ask me to call them back and give me a number and the whole bit... But then they seem to ...