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I am 14, and having trouble finding love, I am gay and I haven't opened up to anyone yet, what should I do?

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Question - (7 September 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 September 2007)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

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I am 14, and having trouble finding love, I am gay and I haven't opened up to anyone yet, what should I do?

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A male reader, dont_play_nice_ United Kingdom +, writes (14 September 2007):

Hey - as a young gay guy myself I always found it hard to find someone trusting - especially while I was at school. The important thing is to get to know people in your class, maybe the friends you have already and then assess whether they would accept you for who you are once they know - don't feel pressured to tell anyone, and only tell the people who would keep it a secret. Read books, maybe see a teacher you trust - there are tons of websites out there for young gay & lesbian teens to help you out. You are not the first young gay guy and you certainly aren't the last, so take comfort in knowing you're not alone. As for finding love? I wouldn't worry about that too much - the right guy will come along when you least expect it! Good luck!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007):

do not worry open up to a friend they will understand and eventually you will start to realise that you dont have to worry about what others think, there are many gay people out there, you have to open up and so that they will or be approached

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007):

I am 14, and having trouble finding love, I am gay and I haven't opened up to anyone yet, what should I do?"

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