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Why am I stressing over him not calling?

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Question - (7 September 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 September 2007)
A female United States, anonymous writes:

I think Im a mental case.....I have this great guy whom I see every weekend (he lives an hour away) and he has called me every single day since we have been together (3 weeks officially dating).....he is now working 2 jobs for the last week and has been still calling me nightly albiet VERY late just to talk to me. Last night he didnt call....so I admit Im a nutcase.

His cell has been off for the last 3 days for some reason but, as I said he HAS called me since its been turned off....again except for last night.

I guess I want to know why Im stressing over this ???

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2007):

Im i a similiar situation - we live an hour apart and both very busy with work, and I also have children. You stress out cos you're lonely, insecure and the best way to handle it is to keep busy in your own life, be good to yourself and make the times together really fun. If its going to go wrong, it will; but your best chance of keeping it right is to be HAPPY by yourself, be confident and build trust and love. Also don't be to predictable and available...let him wonder where you are and what you're doing..!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007):

Because you like him. It's pretty standard.

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