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writes:i really upset my bf to the point he cried i was telling him on the phone about something that happened in his area (a girl was killed coz she was a goth) and said im scared to go to his. he then started going on about me toughing up and how i need to look after my self when i told him i cant protect myself well. he started crying saying he really scared that im gonna get hurt and he wouldnt be able to live with the thought of him not being there to help me when im in trouble. he also said he would fight to the death to save me. i feel really abd that he started crying as he only done this twice before both because i phrased something wrong. i really want to make it up to him how can i as he lives 200 miles away
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reader, sexi  +, writes (7 September 2007):
 Hi,Just ket him know that nothing can effect your relationship as you really loves. Tell him that you are prepared to work through your fear (and you should be) and that would ease him. Speaking to him should comfort him. You can also plan a nice day for you 2 at your place (he can come see you if he is allowed) and then you can express your feelings to him in person.Regards,mail me if you wanna talk
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reader, jm81690  +, writes (7 September 2007):
 He's probably scared you won't come see him now.If he'd fight to the death for you, then you not liking the area he lives in won't change his opinion of you any.Just apoligize to him, or tell him you got to thinking and the area isn't all that bad... You might be bending the truth a bit there, but atleast that will make him happy, and if you're happy when he's happy, its a win win.
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