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Archived questions from: 28 September, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Confused about this guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - hello when i met my boyfriend five months ago, we both agreed to have fun and see how it goes. i felt though that in the beginning he was unwilling to commit. he is extremely kind to me very thoughtful and very helpful. he never however ...

Been with the guy I love before, but he's dumped me for stupid reasons in the past... 3rd time lucky?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - hello, i really want someone to help me plz this is the situation i think i still love this guy i have been out with him twice already but they didn` t last long as he keeps dumping me for stupid reasons e.g. once he dumped me because he had a ...

I don't know if I should believe her anymore when she keeps blowing me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - my girlfriend asked me out the other day, and i said yes... were happy and talk alot!! but lately ive been coming un stcuk for words... i getvery nervous wen i talk to her and i am alwaiis trying to find reasons to talk/meet her... she keeps ...

What is it I'm doing wrong for girls to get bored and walk away when I start chatting to them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - I'm in a spot of bother. I'm a confident man, I am friendly, I keep my apperance neat and I'm hygenic, I can be funny, yet whenever I try talking to a girl or ask her out they always get bored and go away. People who read this will probably say it's ...

Does he like me and how do I let him know I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - hey im not great at talking to guys. and completly horrendes in relationships - too inexperienced and nervous. but i recently started at a new 6 form college - its great! and there's this guy i have my eye on. he's really cute! he's fairly quiet too ...

Will it put off guys to find out I am going to wait till marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

28 September 2007 (?) - I am a devoted Christian and I am not going to have sex until I am married and I want to wait. I know I am only young but I was wondering if it would put guy's off me, because I wouldn't have sex with them. When I am older would it affect my ...

I saw my ex and he kissed me and said he missed me, but he has a girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - ok well my an my boyfriend went out for lik a little for than a year and he seemd to hav a low selfesteem, we were eachothers first love, very attached and wuldnt trust me even though i really cared for him the whole time and i told him that- he ...

He doesn't want to go out with me, but he hardly knows me! How can I get something to happen between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

28 September 2007 (?) - I like this boy so much and he knows that I like him. He said that he didn't want to go out with me and that he just wants to be friend. But he doesn't really know me because we don't talk that much and he hasn't known that for that long. I real...

My ex is the dance instructor I met through school. Can she get in trouble? How can I win her back? If I can't, then how do I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - i was in a production of oklahoma at my 6th form school. Anyway at the after show party the dance insturctor who had been teaching was the moves came to the party and after a few drinks we got talking and one thing led to another and we ended up ...

He misunderstood what I said, and became rather distant. What should I do so that he will meet me when I travel to B next month?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - I have known a guy since November 2004 during my trip to Michigan through a friend. He texted me everyday. As he stayed in Michigan and I was in New York, we could not see each other but only communicate through sms or he will call me once a week. ...

I think my bf has been hanging out with my ex! It's weird, b/c when I introduced them they didn't get along! This is so odd! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - Last week a friend of mine told me that my boyfriend has been spending time with my ex-b/f. I asked her if it was true, and she said, yes, she'd seen it several times during the week. I've only introduced my boyfriend to him once, and they ...

We're on break, but he's still excited to go apartment searching for US! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - So i tried to talk to my boyfriend last night, to have that neutral conversation. So that way he can tell me how he feels annd how i feel. IT backfired! He can never tell me hows hes feeling really. This is what i got from hhim: "I feel rushed with ...

The man I'm seeing has a fiance and he's confused about his feelings. I don't want to wait, but don't want to lose him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - I have been somewhat involved with a man who is engaged... We work together. I am 21 and he is 34. We started off as good friends.... im not going to get into it as everyone woman seems to have the same old boring story. Anyway, it has always be...

My ex has started speaking to me again, and I'm replying to her. But am I just headed for MORE heartache?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - My question is this: My ex has started speaking to me again, and I'm replying. But am I just headed for more heartache? I posted a question just yesterday telling how miserable I was (Because yesterday, I really was miserable over the situation...

The guy I'm seeing has been gone for a week, but now he's back in town...and he hasn't called me! What should I say and do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - i started seeing this guy i dont know exactly what it is about him that made me like him a lot. But he's great. i dont know what's been wrong with everything lately. like, i've always given the guy space whenever he needed it. i guess i've always b...

I think I love my straight friend! How can I tell if she likes me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - i like my friend but shes straight. i like one of my friends, we have become really close i am bi. but no one knows that im bi i started to have strong feelings for this friend for about a year. i think its love because i cant stop thinking about he...

My partner doesn't love me, but I'm hoping his feelings will change. Am I being unrealistic? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - I'm in a relationship with a guy who doesn't love me. He cares for me and how I feel, but he is not emotionally attached to me. This is my first relationship in 10 years, I am hoping that in time his feelings will change. Am I being unrealistic? ...

I want to know if my ex and I can have a relationship again; he asked his friend who I had a casual relationship with to stop flirting w/ me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6061 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - I can't seem to get over my first love, Andy. We split five years ago and one year later we began hanging out again but he would not take me back. Two years ago he moved in with Leigh, a good male friend of mine. Leigh and I had an ongoing ...

Recently my guy hasn't been calling or asking me out, but when I asked he was happy about it! What does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - ive been going out with someone for a while - he always was the one calling me and asking me out - but recently that hasnt been happening. i thought maybe he isnt interested anymore. but when i asked him out recently he responded really warmly and ...

My boyfriend can't hold down a job... he gets angry and sullen and blames everyone but himself!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - Please help. I really need some advice. My boyfriend can't hold down a job. He'll stay a couple of months at a job at the most. Basically he splits as soon as he has a conflict at work, he gets all upset and angry and instead of talking about it or ...

He's the best bf I've dated, but I can't get over our 2 year age gap!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid i have a boyfriend who is 2 years younger then me. im not really comfortable with that age gap but he always make sure we don't let that come between us. out of all the guys i'v dated, he tops them all and he always remains me of his...

My don't remember cheating, but my gf split w/ me b/c of it! And now there's someone else who likes me! Any advice with both problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - Hey. I am 18; my girlfriend has just broken up with me. She broke up with me because I kissed another girl. I don’t remember cheating on her (I was really drunk), but apparently I did. I understand that I lost her trust but I feel like I didn't ...

I cry b/c I know I can't have him; if love is so great, then why do I feel pain and suffering?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - I know this might seem strange, but I think I'm in love, even though I'm 15. The guy that I love just turned 18. I like him for who he is, not because he's Mr. Whatever. I would take care of him; I would do whatever I could to help him. Every night, ...

My friend and I like the same guy, but she never talks w/ him! Should I say hi instead and tell him he's hot?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - im 11 years old and i really like this guy kyle i mean like hes really cute and nice but the problem is that my friend likes him to and im trying to be supportive of her but she just wont say hi to him and i really like him and hes 2 of my friends ...

I want to ask a guy to homecoming, but I hardly talk with him! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - I'm a sophomore, and the guy I like is a senior. Our homecoming is in 3 weeks. I don't talk to him often, and we don't have any classes together. I would like to ask him, but I don't know what he'll say. I asked him to prom last year and he said no, ...

How can I tell if a guy likes me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - How can I tell if a guy likes me or not? I think one of my friends, J, likes me. One day he told my friend we were going out. Today, he dropped his pen underneath my chair twice and asked me to get it. Also, he asks me, and only me, about homework. ...