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writes:ok first off i am dating a boy lets call him "j", well he seems like such a sweet guy, hes a sophmore in high school, i am in my last year of middle school. well my cousin goes to the high school, and she admitted that she wanted a boyfriend and she didnt like that i found someone who i click with and likes the same stuff...well i got some news from her friend that he asked her if i am "easy" and "bangable". he told me he would never lie to me and when he gets off his bus he meets me at mine and we walk together, problem is, i dont know whether or not to believe her or believe him.....her sister told me some more stuff after we got into a fight and hung up...so do you think they're lying cause they dont want me to have a boyfriend or not?? please help me xox
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reader, somewhat_anonymous +, writes (8 September 2007):
They could be making it up out of jealousy. They could be telling the truth. He, of course, will always say what you want to hear. The only thing to do is stay with him if things are going well. If he keeps pushing for you two to have sex in the near future, you'll know your friends are right. If he doesn't and keeps being the perfect gentleman, then you know your friends are liars.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): Hi there.
Ok my take on the situation is that both parties could have their own agenda. Your goals and sights are the only things that matter.
Be mindful of both, take a step back and see them for what they are. If either one is false you should be able to pick it up with a cool and calm composure.
All the best.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (7 September 2007):
It don't matter what he may have asked them, what matters is how he treats you.
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