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Archived questions from: 26 September, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Am I overthinking this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I really need some prespective on my situation...I'm at a total loss here and I feel like if I don't get this off my chest I'm going to end up causing a fight with my BF He is in Japan for work and I am in the US, so today I called him to chat at ...

We have a great relationship, but lately I feel he's growing further away from me! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Ok so i guess i should start by saying that my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 10months now. Things were a bit strange to start off with; we were best friends before. Anyway, we have a great relationship but lately i feel he's grow...

My boyfriend of 3 years have moved away to University. He's getting on better with the girls than the guys. I'm so worried!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I'm 18 and my boyfriend of nearly 3 years has moved away 2 uni. we're each others first love and used to see each other everyday.we were unseperable. now he's moved away im finding it so difficult. everytime i speak to him (which isnt that often) ...

He cheated, but he won me back... Now he's had to move 2 hours away! I love him, but I have doubts...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I am so conflicted. I have been dating a man for about 4 years. Last March I found out he cheated on me with my best friend. I broke it off with him and kicked him out of my house. Afterwards he was very remorseful and fought very hard to win me ...

I have issues with self-confidence, and I get jealous when my girlfriend and her friends talk about hot guys. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - Hey - I'm a schoolkid and I think I have serious self confidence issues about the way I look etc. I have a girlfriend who I really love, its just... She talks to her friends and stuff about who in our year is fit/hot etc, and I kind of get the ...

It's been a year, I still love him, but now he's with my so-called friend. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Ok so i went out with this one boy for about year and we deeply fell for each other i loved him alot and he "said" he loved me in which i belived so after a while of getting to know each other very well he decided the relationship was getting old so ...

Should we have a baby? I'm 19, he's 28

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I think I want a baby, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. we get on well some of the time and we have discussed it before. how do I know if its right or not? Im nearly 19 and he is 28. ...

I want him back, but I don't know how to approach him. What should I say?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6062 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - IVe got a bf and i still have feeling 4 my ex very large 1s i split up wid him 2months because of my family and friends because they made a rumour abouthim nd now i want him back but i dont no what to say to him and how to tell him x what shou...

He doesn't want me anymore, but I don't think I can live without him! Please help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Hi, I had a relationship of 11 years. During 10 years we were very happy. Two years ago we bought a house. Then I wanted to marry. My boyfriend would not. And we couldn't talk about it so one year ago I left my him. We worked about a year on our r...

I want him to know that I like him, without telling him. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I really like this guy and have done for a year. My friends call me a flirt so if I flirt with him he'll just think i'm being myself. Sometimes i think he flirts with me but maybe thats how he is. I want him to know i like him without me accualy ...

Should I ask her if I'm more than just a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - I have this question: should i ask her am i a friend or i'm more and tell her my feelings or not.???? Well i met a girl in bar, with my friend we were talking and i met this girl, the details are not important, the meaning is that, she lives ...

My bf says he wants to rekindle our relationship, but only wants to see me twice a week!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - after dating someone steady for almost 3 years, breaking up two times, can this relationship be rekindled? once a relationship has gotten very intimate can you really start over like it was when you first started dating the person? my bf says that ...

I'm 40 something, can I successfully date two men?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Is it possible for a forty something year old women to successfully date two different men?...

My head says leave, my heart says stay, what do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Where do I go from here after hes messed around again? I've been with my daughters father for nearly four years, in that time we have split up a few times because of his imaturity and due to me finding texts to others girls in his phone. while...

What do I do, this man has other women and a child in his life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - what should i do with a man that i am in love wit who have a woman and a child and another woman in his life and cliams that he want to married me ...

Do I marry my fiance or go off with my lover?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I'm a 46-year-old Mother of 8 (3 by my first husband, 5 by my current partner) and I've had many affairs. Most of which my partner has known about. But now I've started a relationship with a man who myself and my Fiance both work with. All of the ...

How do I convince a man to have a baby with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - how do i convice a man to have a baby with me ?? i really want another baby only i want this one to be his .. ...

I'm torn between an older man and my fiance, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - ive been with my fiance for 5 years but over the last few months ive been seeing a man that is 11 years older than me, he is single but im falling for him or should i say i already have and i dont know what to do. i dont wanna hurt any one but...

Has she stopped loving me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5997 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - Hi, I am new here but hope you can help me! I have been with my girlfriend for over 3 years, I am worried that she no longer feels the way I do anymore, I loved from day one and still very much do. Over the past 6 months or so she has become v...

How will I know if I am in love or just lust?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - how do you know love is real ?? i have been with my present bf almost 10months and i am starting to question myself and my answers are all the same i do love him but i wanna know how you know its real love opposed to just a lust thing ...

My boyfriend got really agressive after a fight we had beacuse he was jealous and hit me....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend got really agressive after a fight we had beacuse he was jealous and hit me. I couldn't fight back because he was too strong. What should I do now? He has apologised but I'm not convinced!...

Do I try to make my relationship work? I can't stop thinking about this other guy but is that because of the thrill of it that I enjoyed it all so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years and over the last year or so things have been becoming very strained. Our sex life is non-existant - due to an unwanted pregnancy which we chose not to go ahead with and since then I have become ...

How do I get her out of this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for 5 and a half months now and we are really really happy together. The problem is that his ex won't leave him alone. They had a very short relationship last December where she only met him three times, ignored ...

The (flirting) signs a boy fancies you?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - please help, im new to the dating game and i dont know the signs if boys fancy me,im a bit of a tom boy,my mates say there are many flirting signs around but which are the popular with males and females? ...

The Turkish guy says he'd leave all behind to be with me and marry, but my family think he'd doing it for a ticket in UK. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Somebody help me, i recently went to marmaris in july 2007 i met this turkish guy who worked at the hotel where i was staying, i noticed he was staring at me all the time because i am blonde and i know the turks love blondes but then we got chatting ...

I see her every Sunday in church, but I'm hesitant in talking to her for fear of rejection. Help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - I'm nearly 17 and there is this girl I got a crush on. I see her every Sunday in a youth bible group and afterwards in church. She knows me but not personally. I don't know what to do because I'm afraid of rejection. could someone help me with thi...

Do you think he will ever leave her as they don't see that much of each other or am I just wasting my time hoping he will.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - A couple of months ago I met someone who I later found out to be married to a woman in Thailand, he works in England for over half the year and stays with her for the rest, he lives very close to me and we see each other a lot. He said he does love ...

I want to know how to make my boyfriend fall back in love with me with in a day!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - i want to know how to make my boyfriend fall back in love with me with in a day because he started being friends with this other girl and they went out about three to four times and he said its my fault because we are always fighting so please let ...

Who should I choose: my current bf, my bestmate's ex or the guy who seems to pretend he doesn't like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I know I'm only 14, but I'm confused in who I want more: my ex who i get on with normally, my mate's ex who i have loads of laughs with, or my ex / ex bestmate who doesnt even like me! The first I am actually going out with now, but I'm not sure...

Does he want me, the new girl, or the rebound? How do you know when someone is genuine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Hello, I need advice. I am still in love with my ex, and I know this, I tried to deny this but it's true. I think of him every minute of the day, and have for the past few years. We are on again off again...And He says he really loves me, but I ...

Is it worth falling in love with her if she is just going to move away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6002 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - Right, well my girlfriend will be going to university next year, and I am the year below her at school so I will be going a year after her. I've been with her for just over 6 months and she means the world to me, but to clarify i do not love her ...

He said he wanted to move slower in our sex life, but wants it every night! Does this make sense??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - He told me he wanted to slow down on sex! He said he wanted it to mean more and I have not been pressureing him. But now it seems every night he wants to make love to me. Does this make sense?? ...

I've started to pull my weight around the house, but I think it's too late! How can I show her I've changed and don't want to split?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - hi i don't really know how to start this but here it goes. i've been with my girlfriend for about 2 years now and in the beginning it started out great. we loved been together, everywhere we went it was together. we were always together. we got...

I expected to be comforted after my grandmother's passing, but instead my gf broke up with me! I want her back - what's my next move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - Hi, I have just recently split up with my girlfriend. We have had an amazing year and a bit with each other but she has just suddenly told me she wants to split up. I have taken this very hard. Recently my Grandma has passed away and returnin...

My f*ck buddy mentioned us having an exclusive relationship! What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I need a guys opinion for this one, please. I have this guy, we were fuck buddies or at least thats what we still are meant to be but we dont have sex any more. Ive known him a year but from june-august I didnt see him as I went to austria for a fe...

I'm the only one who calls and texts in our relationship! Should I stop to see if he'll actually initiate the communication?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Okay so i've been seeing a guy for the last 2 months. We get along really well and have alot in common. My problem is he doesn't call, or initiate text msgs... but will always pick up and talk, or text me staright back when i initiate the comm...

Can a guy be really into me even though he never contacts me during the week?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6063 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Hey guys, My guy of 6 weeks has never... even when we were just dating been a textng/calling guy and he admits that and says hes not a phone type of guy. Hes very face to face and we usually spend most of the weekend together. since we have be...

My ex and I are friends - and it was really weird hearing him talk about his new girl!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Hi There! I have a dilema, my ex and I broke up 15months ago as he had a gambling habit and we were losing intimacy. We never sought counselling. We have however remained good friends and speak at least every few weeks, just general chit cha...

I've never really made a move on a guy before, so I don't know how I should go about this without feeling stupid!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6063 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I don't have much experience with dating. I've only been with one guy, and that was over a year ago. We lasted for only a few months, but things got serious really fast. He had emotional issues, and a few weeks before I left for college he dumped me ...

Am I cheap person or have misunderstood his actions? Is he just using me for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Am i cheap person or have misunderstood his actions?dear aunts, here is my problem. Im with this boy for almost 5 months,we have fun and everything.Im not so materialistic girl, but cannot understand why he bought me a cheap present and not even ...

I hate how the only guys that seem to like me are online. What can I do to solve this painful problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I have really bad luck when it comes to guys. I am 17, and have never had a boyfriend. But here's the thing: I met this guy online, and we've been friens for 2 years, He says he really likes me, And i like him too. I want to meet him so badly, ...

I get physically nauseaous worrying about whether or not he's going to miss me or just be happy I'm out of town!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Well I am not sure where to start. About a year and half ago, I met this great guy. He is about 5 and half years older, we have a lot in common, we moved in together about a year ago, have talked about marriage, not so much now. About 6 months ...