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Archived questions from: 11 September, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I am afraid she will run away if I come on too strong and try to see her more.To girls: what is she up to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 391 days ago

11 September 2007 (M) - I have been seeing a girl for about a month, we have had about 6-7 dates. Most have been initiated by me. We haven't kissed properly yet, it just seems a bit awkward although we both do like each other. She doesn't call me just for a chat, but has ...

How long should our break last? Will we be able to get back together and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I had been together for four years. About 5 months ago he got drunk and kissed a girl, but told me that night and apologized. I attempted to get over it but was devastated for the next few months. I lost the emotional aspect of our ...

My fiancee is a cross dresser

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - my fiancee, is a cross dresser, and iv been with him for 4 yrs. he hasnt always been honest with me about this, but latley this side of him is out again.im sort of ok with it ,but i have 3 imprssionable young sons. they saw pictures of him dressed ...

How do you get a guy to like you?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

11 September 2007 (?) - Has anyone got any tips on how to get a guy to like you? e.g flirting tips. Anything would be great! xx...

I was all moody with my BF. Have I ruined things now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - I slept over my bf's at the weekend. I was quite moody with him and we did argue a little over stupid stuff. When he dropped me off in the morning he seemed different, he did not kiss me goodbye or tell me when he was gonna call. I havent heard from ...

He let another girl give him a bj, but wants another chance with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 391 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - I was working in the same company were my Bf is the co-owner we're leaving together for almost 9 months. He's a hot and attractive guy. I can tell that coz a lot of our employee has a crush on him. One of the employee really likes him to the point ...

I always fight with my boyfriend. Its not his fault. How can I stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - I always fight and argue with my boyfriend. I am always the one starting the arguments and always blaming him for everything. I know and I can see that it is hurting him and I dont know how to stop doing that. It hurts me because i put him through ...

This guy I was seeing also had a long distance girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 392 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - I started seeing this guy soon after my divorce. After 2 weeks of seeing each other he told me he had been seeing this girl from another part of the country. He said it was over with her but didnt know how to end it. I didnt question him about the ...

Why does he always choose rugby over me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - On sunday, i was really unwell with womens problems and i had a migraine. i really wanted my boyfriend to come over and pick me up because like every girl gets, i was tearful and upset and felt although i really needed a cuddle. the day before we ...

We have been separated for years, but I am afraid to file for divorce

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - I am 49 woman, separated from my husband for a number of years though not in his eyes. In 2000 he gave me std's after 20 years of marriage, the same time this happened i lost my mother and my world fell apart. this actually helped my husband stay in ...

My boyfriend is recently separated and while he says he loves me, I still feel second best

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - i fell in love with a man that has been seperated since christmas. we been together for a few months. he was working near my hometown. the job finished and he had to move to a diffrent area which is 3 hours drive away. he has met all my family and ...

My friend likes the same boy I do, but he chose me and now she is mad

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - A couple of months ago my friend told me she like the boy i liked...and i found out he liked me...we went to a party...flirted hidiously and then spent the whole night together and she completely cut me off...all my friends sed she should just be ...

I am really falling for this guy and its messing up my schoolwork.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 391 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - well my prob is: iv known this guy really well for quite a long time now and we've always been really close, i tell him everything and he always helps me and is there for me. the problem is i am now starting to fall for him really bad, i cant get ...

She keeps going back to her ex. Should I wait for her to make up her mind, or just cut the cord now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 391 days ago

11 September 2007 (M) - I've posted questions regarding this before, but here's a quick rundown, just in case you all aren't as obsessed with my love life as I am... :) I'd known this girl for four years (calls me her best friend), finally told her how I feel after her b...

He proposed, but now says it wasnt real!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 392 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - hey, This is a relationship question that i would really like help with because im always thinking about it and its worrying me. my boyfriend who ive been with nearly 2 years perposed to me unexpectedly on holiday last month. ive been hinting ...

We ended, but I still really like her. Should I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

11 September 2007 (M) - I dated this girl for around 4 months, we ended in February... We broke up mutually, just agreed that things weren't 'right' etc. I felt fine with things for a while, she got back with an ex, and I was absolutely fine with it no problem. We said...

How can we resolve this conflict and how can I get time back for my hobbies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

11 September 2007 (M) - I moved in with my girlfriend a little under two years ago. We've been together since high school (13 years ago) and both of us agree it's the best thing we've done. Our relationship is solid and we very rarely argue apart from about one thing: ...

Once a cheater, always a cheater?.. Am I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - Once a cheater always a cheater? I was always of the impression that cheaters are always going to be cheaters.. Until I rather stupidly cheated on my boyfriend - who is now an ex. It was a drunken night when I kissed someone else but I decided to...

Why has my boyfriend suddenly cut me out of his life??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 392 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - Last week my b/f just suddenly decided he needed 'space' we hadn't fallen out or anything it just came out of the blue. I havn't heard from im in over a week although we lived together and all of his clothes and everything are still at my house ...

My girlfriend just can't decide who she wants to be with!! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

11 September 2007 (M) - I don't know where to begin, my heart and thoughts are all over the place. Earlier this year, a met someone who became a very close friend of mine. Time went by, and I started to develop feelings for her. At the time, she had recently ...

I think he likes me, but I'm confused! What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 392 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - hey there, i'm 18 yr old gal,student and just met a 26yr old guy last month. im still a student and he has a stable career. the thing is the day we met he has been giving me clear signs that he wanted to start a relationship with me for in...

We've had a BIG fight. How can I win him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend had the biggest fight ever, and both of us are hurt. He also dont look at me the way he use to and he does not want to hold me. I really love him and dont want to lose him! What can i do to win him back. ...

Cancer stunned my boyfriends growth. In height and... Other things. Will he still be able to satisfy me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - heya my bf had cancer when he was younger (hes now 21) but all the treatments and keymo stunnted his growth. It didnt just stunt his height it stunnted other things aswell (his penis size). i am fine with this but i was wondering if it could effect ...

We're ready for the next step, but why am I so scared??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - We're ready for the next step, but why am I so scared?...

He told me we need space... How should I be feeling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - hi my boyfriend just told me on the phone that we need space, we argue too much lately. we hat two arguments in the last couple of weeks. i hav been sensing he needs space for a while. what do i make out of it? can you guys please giv me your poin...

Should I forget what happened and ignore him? My mate texted him that I loved him, which has made things worse.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 392 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - my life is so messed up right now. theres a guy that i have liked 4 ages and we finally arranged 2 go on a date, it was wickared, i had the best time ever, and we even ended up making out. but since then we never saw each other again till we went ...

Can a lasting relationship come out of cheating, and how does it feel to be the "other guy" ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - A couple of questions: What does it feel like to be the "other guy"? Is it possible to have a relationship with a girl you've been cheating with? Can a lasting relationship come out of this scenario? Any tips/hints/suggestions you co...

I cannot see her or her daughter suffer the consequences of my leaving. Thanks to all.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

11 September 2007 (M) - In regard to the last question I posted: Your advise was all good and probably right. Only one problem, I really am in love with this woman and her daughter. I can not see her or her daughter suffer the consequences of my leaving. Their worlds w...

I have no problems being friends but how can I tell him that I've no feelings for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 393 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - So I met this guy in my group from an orientation for school. The group exchanged phone numbers. WHY was this necessary? I'm not quite sure but it was initiated by some girl in the group. Anyways, the same guy got my number and called me througho...

I wouldn't want to continue meeting if there's no hope of getting back together, although I broke up with him. How long should I wait this out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 392 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - Well i have been dating this boy for about 2 years now. We just recently broke up for the second time( the other time was in January). I broke up with him both times. He is really a insecure person, he has a crazy mom and does not have a lot ...

The guy I'm dating calls too often, disfocusing me from my studies. How to let him know not to disturb me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - Its almost 4 am. Im awake. Thats ok,im student and study usualy at night. Well, here is the problem. Im dating with a guy who presumably now has problems with sleeping,... Dont want to sound unsympathetic or , but this guy knows that i have strict ...

He's ditched his girlfriend... Is he coming after me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 393 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - I known this guy for about a year now and I really like him. I think he's flirting with meh but it's hard to tell. H just broke up wit dis grl, but i dunno cause i heard him telling peeps dat he broke up wit her to got out wit someone. I hope it's ...

I keep thinking about my boyfriend all the time... It's annoying me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 393 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - ok i need help..really bad..i have a boyfriend..and i cannot stop thinking about him..I mean its annoying now..EVERYTHING i do he is there in my thoughts..he wants to marry me when he turns 18..will that not b acceptable cus im only 16...

My life

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 377 days ago

11 September 2007 (?) - hello ladies and gentlemen i met this wonderful guy named Will Baety from Utah over a month and a half ago on Inklink we are going to meet this Christmas since he coming down to visit me and have a New Year with me we are in love. But he says he is ...

I don't know how to ask her out... Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 393 days ago

11 September 2007 (M) - i need some advice im in school and today i saw the cutest girl in my class and i would want to try to go out with her but i dont know what to do? help please!...