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writes:okthis is how it istheres this girl i like at school but i cant seem to talk to her i know she isnt interested in me but i really like herany advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, Dr. John  +, writes (8 September 2007):
 I liked this cheerleader in highschool. I worshipped the ground she walked on but I could not bring myself to even talk to her even though she and I were in a class together. I eventually started dropping little anonymous notes in her locker and since she started classes an hour before me I would show up at school an hour early just to see her reaction when she would read them. In the notes I dropped little hints about me and she soon figured it out. A friend of hers came and got me one day at lunch and said Annette wanted to see me. I thought I would faint dead away when I stood up to walk over. When I got to her she proceeded to tear my heart from my chest and throw it into the nearest trash can. She told me that if I liked a girl I should just come out and tell her, not leave notes and such. She chewed on me for what seemed like an eternity while her friend stood by and laughed all the while. That was 36 years ago and it still hurts to think about it.I guess what I am trying to say is that you will probably be better off just to go to her and tell her you like her. When you do though take flowers or candy or even both. Women can not resist this kind of treatment. And remember that a woman should always, and I mean always be treated like a queen. Be her Prince Charming and she will respond to that. Don't plow in and presume to be a macho man and think she will go for that, they don't as a rule. My brother used to get so mad at me because he said I always had a girl on each arm. Suffice it to say he didn't use this tactic.....I did. Give it a try. You may be pleasantly surprised. P.S. Polish your armor before hand. lol Doc.
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