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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Dear CupidMe and my bf of 3 years had a huge fight 2 days back. He started calling me really nasty names and i got angry and i walked out on him. I tried to call him yesterday and found out that he has blocked my number.I have sent one mail asking why he did that and no response for that too.I definitely was not a stalker, then why did he do that? I dont want to call from a pay phone, since he obviously doesnt want to talk to me. Its really depressing even to think someone can do that to me. How can i move on? I really loved him a lot. Please help me.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (2 April 2011):
 What you can do is send him an email that you felt bad that the fight had to happen. It was some unresolved issue and you waited at the wrong time to express your feelings. Tell him that there are definitely better ways to handle it than a few days ago. Once you calmed down you can access the situation with a clear mind, identify what the problem is. Also determine if the problem is an unsolvable one, like one of you can't compromise on one issue. People sometimes fight because they simply don't feel loved enough. If that's the case reassure you love him. This message is an attempt to change his mind about breaking up. At the same time tell him you accept any outcome because if love is mostly painful, then you are doing it wrong and there will be no reason holding on to it. When he sees that you can express yourself in a logical manner then maybe he will realize things are not that bad after all.
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