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writes:Dear Cupid,You probably get questions like this all the time, but i honestly don't know what to do anymore.I like this guy - a lot - and have for almost a year. Problem is he has a girlfriend. I never used to like him that much but it's just in the last few months that I've started liking him a lot!We flirt all the time and hang out a lot. Once i asked about her and he told me that he didn't love her any more. He also told me that she hates it when we hang out because she thinks i'm in love with him (at least someone can see it!!!) but he does it anyway cause he loves hanging out and talking to me. He continuously goes out of his way for me, offering me lifts to and from school and spending his "free's" (study periods) with me. We really connect and I have the best fun with him, he gives me the "look" a lot as well.Every time i see him and his girlfriend together it hurts.I honestly don't know what to do anymore, should i tell him?? Please help me! This situation is killing me.- Confused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2011): Thanks guys, yeah i get what your both saying. this situation is just so incredibly crappy i don't know what to do about it ):He really is the nicest guy i know, i don't think he's using me at all... i think he may just be trying to keep it working with his girlfriend.. they've been together for about 2 years i think so its pretty understandable. I'ts just generally shit for me. haha
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 April 2011):
If he has a girlfriend and claims he doesn't love her anymore, then he's using her and is out to use you too. Tell him nothing, and don't accept anymore lifts or anything. Imagine how crappily he's treating his girlfriend. He's with her, lies to her, probably uses her. But he doesn't love her.
and do you know what that means?
It means he will lie to you (as he is), use you (as he is trying to), and hurt you too.
Never bother with someone who has a girlfriend, but claims not to love them. They're liars one way or another. He's really not a nice guy at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2011): hey, sounds like youre having some trouble, ye i understand it can be hard, from what you're describing i think he likes you ;) and i do think you should tell him how you feel, when you're alone with him so it would be easier for him to open up aswell, goodluck, write back if you still need help or having trouble!
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