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Does this mean love?

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Question - (2 April 2011) 6 Answers - (Newest, 2 April 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

if you're kissing a boy and you put your hands down his pants and start to masturbate him, and he starts to breathe really hard and heavy and put his head on my shoulder, what does this mean?

and can a boy be in love with a girl but not tell anyone?

p.s this boy is the person i like, we've been out loads and we've kissed and done stuff, but we don't really talk anymore, i think it's because his friends made fun of me, but he always stares at me, could he be in love with me?

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A female reader, Orbiter United Kingdom +, writes (2 April 2011):

The first part of question means he's excited. It doesn't mean love. It can be part of a loving relationship but nothing more on it's own.

As for: "can a boy be in love with a girl but not tell anyone?"

It's possible, if a bit unusual. In your case it sounds like he's trying to distance himself from you to prevent being teased by his friends but that doesn't mean he's not interested.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2011):

far from it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2011):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

okay, thankyou:)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2011):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

okay, thankyou:)

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A female reader, fishdish United States +, writes (2 April 2011):

fishdish agony auntThe heavy breathing is just what comes with sexual activity. You shouldn't read any kind of romantic feeling into it. That he still looks at you sort of shows that he's still interested, but he's MORE interested in doing what his friends want him to do, which is not get involved with you. You'll have to find someone who isn't so influenced by his peers and can be proud to like you for who you are.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2011):

I don't think this means love... im sorry. This guy is clearly interested in you but do you do anything other than kiss and touch each other? If the answer is no then i think you have your answer..

Also if he doesn't speak to you this probably indicates that he is only interested in you in a physical way. You'll find someone better though (:

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