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I'm losing faith in ever having a girlfriend. Can anyone help?

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Question - (2 April 2011) 6 Answers - (Newest, 3 April 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *zh198 writes:

hi i live in the UK. i'm 17 and never had a gf. i'd love one but they don't care cause of my skin condition. i'm also a virgin looking to lose my virginity to another virgin. i've never even kissed a girl before and its come to the stage of being really depressed and everything has shut down in my life etc. etc. i can't live no more basically. any one help me please. thanks.

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A male reader, Jackalus United Kingdom +, writes (3 April 2011):

I'm a virgin and stuff as I told you, but what I think you need to know that the are over 3 billiOn people in the world and one of them is looking for you right now, you are 17 yeah and you live in the uk so you are in college. I still think that uni is where you meet the one you love most normally. With some exceptions, you need to not worry about it and enjoy you teen years. I have been rejected by girls who I thought I was in love with and I lost all hope and thought I would die a lonely virgin, but a positive attitude always helps :)

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A male reader, mzh198 United Kingdom +, writes (3 April 2011):

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huh thnaks guys but i dunno i've jus had enough ov lyf etc etc n u guys arent even virgins i am 17 n a virgin and stuff.

i just can't cope guys

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2011):

I'm a doctor and I've met lots of people with disfiguring conditions they've had all their lives and they bring their husbands/wives with them to appointments. They found people who love them/fancy them despite unusual External Appearances It's terribly hard waiting to find love or even just a kiss but hang on in there. One thing I truly believe is that you can't win the lottery if u don't buy a ticket. Helpyourself increase xhances of meeting a partner Get out more, meet more people join clubs. Because meeting new people is the key.

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A female reader, blueyedvirgo19 United States +, writes (3 April 2011):

i dont have any advise but i want you to know that you are not allow. i am a 19 year old virgin. also like you i have never been kissed. hell i have never even held hand with a guy. you have the problem with ur skin i have the problemof being very fat and i dont know if anyone will ever like me.i dont know if this helped you but i just wanted you to no that u are not alone in ur quest. kat

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A male reader, Jackalus United Kingdom +, writes (2 April 2011):

Hey mate, I know how you feel. I am 14 and have never had a gf never kissed a girl on the lips. Only once on the cheek. but there is someone who is now thinking of being with you and you will find her. :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2011):

right well im 16 and i live in England. Never had a bf and never kissed a guy. All my friends have but its no concern to me. Dont be depressed. you will find someone. most people do at uni etc etc :)

be happy :)

hope this helps x

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