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How should I answer him?

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Question - (2 April 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 2 April 2011)
A female Brunei Darussalam age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I'm really scared and confused. I don't know how to answer him. Yesterday he asked me to answer him whether I like him or not and he really need an answer. I said I don't know because it was april fool yesterday AND I'm really worried as he told me that he likes one of my friend too and ask me what he should do. I told him to go with her but he said he tried to make me like him for 2 years and all his hard work will be wasted. He then said he has been rejected for years and he tried to help me with everything. I felt really bad after everything he said. I don't know why I'm just scared to tell him the truth. What can I do? Few months ago, I kind of like him because of everything he did to me which is very sweet and my friends asked me whether i'll go out with him if he asked even though I rejected him last year. I answered YES. However, I'm not sure now. He told me he likes one of my friend too. Is that april fool? I really don't want to hurt anyone and if i say I like him then what about my friend that he like? Should I say I don't like him so he can go with my friend? I really don't want to be selfish. I want my friend to be happy as well as him. Am I being mean to him?

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A male reader, Capri2 Argentina +, writes (2 April 2011):

Let alone april's fool you should tell him you like him, if you like him for real. Anyway, he's very immature if he told you he likes you and your friend. And the fact that he likes your friend doesn't mean your friend likes him. So why would you friend be happy with him?

Should you date him? I don't know, he seems to be playing with you.

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