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What does it mean when a guy seems to prefer jacking off to having sex?

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Question - (2 April 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 3 April 2011)
A female United States age 41-50, *andygirl1978 writes:

I know every guy jacks off but why is it? What does it mean if he barely has sex with his girlfriend and always jacks off? I just don't understand!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2011):

it is normal for men. most do it around the world. do not try to over think it. best suggestion that i give on this issue to all is

"do not ask. do not talk about it"

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A female reader, candygirl1978 United States +, writes (3 April 2011):

candygirl1978 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks for all the input I plan on having a talk with him before our relationship ends. Because of reasons not discussed I've just never been in a relationship were I felt like I was not wanted I think maybe he just has a Problem

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2011):

I think it means a guys bored with you and prefers to pleasure himself rather than have sex with you. Dump him before he dumps you

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (2 April 2011):

person12345 agony auntBelieve it or not, some people actually become addicted to masturbation, in that they become so used to the tightness of their own hand that they can't get off any other way. He needs to talk to a counselor about this, who will probably require he go cold turkey for awhile.

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A male reader, honestman Mexico +, writes (2 April 2011):

It means he is addicted to porn. As many men out there.

It doesn't means he doesn't love you. If you are constantly scorning him and restraining sex from him... then every time he masturbates, it might be because he needs relief, and you aren't able to provide it to him the sex he needs.

When I was living with my girlfriend, I just saw porn a couple of times in a year. I was more or less satisfied with her. Porn can't NEVER replace the touch of a woman. You need to imprint this into your head. If he wants to masturbate, Why don't you give him a hand? Or a head?

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