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Dating: Help and advice

I just lost the love of my life... how do I get over him?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - I just lost the love of my life I'm so sad. I can't believe he said we should go our own way. I feel dead, my heart is broken. I really love him. How do I get over him? ...

Am I being taken for granted or am I just seeking for too much?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - My fiance who I have been for with 7 years is a nice guy but I do not know if he really cares about me. He has forgotten by birthday twice, does not buy me things unless I ask and never comments to me about looking pretty or anything. Even my ...

Threesomes... good or bad idea???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - What do you think.... threesomes, good or bad idea?? in general! Ive been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years now and our sex life is just fine, we still have just as much sex now as when we first started out but if im being honest, I would ...

Can 6 inches be satisfying to women who have been with very well-endowed men?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - My penis is only about 6 inches long on a good day, but have decent girth at about 5.5-6.0 inches. I need an honest answer from women if you think this is enough to be satisfying if you've been with well endowed men before. I'm older, and ...

How to really ease into the relationship again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - We were in a time of "space that he wanted". It has been 1 month now. He has talked tome briefly, he is taking it slow. I had plans already before all this happened and got a job and am moving next week. Last time I talked with him he was very ...

What do I say to him when we meet tomorrow to talk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - hey guys im sorry if this is a little long but you need to know the full storry to understand. my best friend is a guy and he likes me, hes liked me for over a year and about 2 month ago he asked me out and i ended up saying yes because i thought ...

Crush gone wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Hello, well, I need some advice on this guy. You see I liked him for a long time, sometimes he used to give me small signals that he liked me. He would try hard to get as close as he could to me. (That means outside my personal space bubble, or not ...

I'm wondering if its stupid or foolish in a sense that I'm 'waiting' for another chance at 'us'.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - to make a long story short, i was in a relationship with this guy for about a year. in the beginning, i lied to him about my past, which really hurt him and tainted the relationship. we took a 'break' after that, and since then we've been in this ...

Why does sex hurt so much when I'm on top?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - OK so im 16 years old and sexually active, but theres a problem and i dont know if its normal or what should i do. whenever me and my bf are having sex and he is on top it doesn't hurt me at all not one bit, But then when he tells me to get on top ...

How to avoid being used financially

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3982 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - I have tried to keep my relationship problems away from this site as I do not want my advice to be assosiated to my own questions. However I have now learned an important lesson that I want to share with the rest of you, in the hopes that you will ...

He asked me why I broke up with him. Should I tell him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - I've been seeing a man for just 7 weeks. After spending more and more time with him, I realized that he makes rude comments, says condescending things, interrupts conversations to be self-promoting, and is generally more antagonizing than ...

Does this mean I'm fat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Okay, well me and this guy got together over a year ago, He wasn't a virgin, he lost his virginity to a slightly over weight girl. which I didn't mind at first. I was a virgin but later in our relationship I lost my virginity to him. I'm not ...

Newly returned to the dating scene -- how to intoduce a "friend"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - i'm divorced and have been out of the dating scene for quite a while. i am 50 y.o. i have a girlfriend so do i introduce her as my girlfriend, or my lady friend? she introduced me as her man friend. im new to this since being divorced....

Still feeling horny for my cousin, even although I now have my own girlfriend... Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4928 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - My cousin is my first love. She didn love me. But, we did make out twice. We were close. I moved on. That was three years back. I met this girl in college. I am 21, she s 20. She s not hot or have a body that everyone will crave but she is cute ...

He calls me horrible names

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - hey guys im kind of new at this thing but i really need an outside perspective. me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year and half now. when he gets mad at me he calls me some horrible names ex:lard ass,bitch,exc.. and it makes me ...

Shouldn't she just trust me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - im seeing this girl now for 6 months now and we really get on well, we cant believe how things are after happening so quick but we didnt try slow them down because everything feels right. but latey we are having a few little arguments. when we are ...

Girlfriend not interested is sex any more

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend on and off for about 8 years, and we have a 5 year old daughter together. We have been back together now about 8 months, and I am making a very sincere effort to work things out this time around. She had wanted to ge...

Do I just kiss and say goodby to this man, or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - hello,im a 46 year old woman on disability, less than $7,00.oo a month, and im in this relationship with a man 66 years old. he shows his love when im with him, i mean the kissing, holding me, telling me how happy he is to have me, but theres 1 ...

Anyone have any advice on how to better my sex life with my fiance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Okay, I'm new to this. My fiance and I have been together almost 2 years now. When we started out, we constantly on a regular daily basis would have sex. After about six months things started to calm down we would go from every day to 3-4 times a ...

Mixed signals... or false hope?

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30 October 2010 (F) - My bf boke up with me after one year and 5 months. We never had a real fight a couple disagreements but other than that always had agreat time together. I let him get to know my children and now it is over, cause he said he is scared, confused and ...

I think I'm hanging on to hope here purely because of the 25 years I've known this person.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - In January this year an old friend from university came back into my life - we met up for a drink and had a lovely evening together. A week later he called and said he'd love to see me again, but not as a friend. I was really shocked but flattered. ...

My boyfriend was naked with his cousin in our bed!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Me and my bf have been with each other for 8 months. we asked his cousins to come play cards and they did. we all got totally wasted on vodka and beer and they were takinh pills. well i passed out in the next room and i woke up wondering were my bf ...

Do men really get stuck emotionally between two women? Looking for male answers but females are welcome

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Do men really get stuck and can't choose between two women? If you have been in this situation please share. Who did you ultimately choose and why?...

Is this the G spot or something else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - When I put my finger inside my girlfriend's vagina and move it along the front wall, the first (i.e. closest to the opening to the vagina) thing I feel is a bit of an uneven or rough patch that is perhaps three-quarters of an inch wide by one inch ...

Did I deserve this treatment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - I have to admit that Im fuming at the moment. I broke up with my boyfriend of a year and a half because of many reasons, but a few of them is his anger-issues and that he could never give me what I needed. So, I want it settled once and for all, if ...

He claims he can't be in a relationship right now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Hello, I've been in a relationship with this guy for 2,5 years. We were even engaged. I'm 24, this guy just turned 23. Evert hing was perfect for the first 2 years. We fought like normal couples do. Sometimes fights were over nothing, sometim...

Is my logic here correct?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Recently I has a conversation with the man I've been involved with for quite some time. The topic was as to why he disappears for extended periods of time for no apparent reason. The end result was him telling me that when things got too emotiona...

My boyfriend is flirting with his ex girlfriend... what do I do here?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - hi this is my first time using this and it's probably because I want to hear other people's opinion on this and might help me. okay so here it goes. I've caught him (boyfriend) before during valentines day, he gave his ex girlfriend the same cake ...

I feel that I do not want to offer a man anything else apart from sex as this is all that I feel that I require.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Hello Readers, I would like to ask for some advice please and am very appreciative of advice I have had in the past. I have been in contact with a guy in Sydney for the last 2 years. To cut to the chase it started off as him being very interested ...

Was he letting me down gently???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Hey, I had a one night stand, the next morning there was no awkwardness he wanted sex again but I decided against it, but told him I was up for meting up again just for sex(I did like him but didnt want to appear too keen!). He was very affec...

I took photos of his girlfriend's underwear and now he's found them! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - i was cheated my friend who was done some good things for me but now i m feeling guilty one and half year ago i was leaving with my friend and sharing a flat in building. his girl frnd was my girl frnd's sister and so we were as group (girls w...

I'm tired of faking that I'm ok when I'm not!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - So, lately i've been having low-self esteem issues, anxiety, and paranoia. I'm 15 and had a crush on a guy friend, I was so sure he liked me but we went to a downtown area with a group of friends and my other friend set him up with this girl. Af...

I never thought I'd be in this situation caring when he's got a girlfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, I need some advice... I just recently divorced my husband of 2 years. Because of that and some other reasons I moved to another city to start my life all over. This is a city where I've had lived before and have some friends. The thi...

Getting a teen age boy's attention

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - What can a 14yr old girl do to get the complete attention of her 15yr old boyfriend...

I may have jealousy problems and I need help/advice.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - I may have jealousy problems and I need help/advice. I have a boyfriend who has never had a girlfriend before. So that means I am his first girlfriend. He has many girl friends and there is just one specific girl that I am worried about. From the ...

He says he will call me right back and does not...smh...why do men do that?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Why does he sometimes say "stay by the phone, imma call you right back," and does not??? I admit it is annoying. What should I do in that situation?...

Long distance, things to talk about

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30 October 2010 (M) - Hello, I'm 25 and during the summer I started dating an 18 year old girl. I know it sounds like a big difference but I felt that we really connected so we thought it was fine. The major problem is that she lives in LA and just started college,...

We're twins but the guys think my shorter sister is more attractive

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - I am 5'8" and my twin sister is two inches shorter than I am. It seems like all the guys think that she is more attractive. Is it because she is shorter than me?...

What do I do if I think I can't kiss?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - What do I do if I think icant kiss like will a boy even care if I can or not if they like me to much ?...

Crushing on the guy I work with, should I approach him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Help, should I approach him. I have a huge crush on this guy I work with we are both in our early 20’s we work at a huge firm so I don’t even know his name; all I know is he stares at me all the time. I have caught his girl and guy buds staring at ...

I wouldn't know who to chose if I had to?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - So i have a boyfriend that ive been dating for 2 years and 2 months now and im living with him, and a roommate. (He has brown hair and brown eyes) We have been living together for about 4 months now. I think the reason was because my mom can trust ...

I think I'm ugly

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Well,I think Im ugly,,,,,,I have a flat but,bushy eyebrows but that all wrong.But guys where I live hate flat butts.:( Then the girls I hang with are all really pretty,and have all been in a relationship,had a kiss or whatever,but me?Nope.The guy I ...

Should I confide in my b/f about my disabled sister or will he run?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Hi, I'd love some advice about whether I should talk to my new bf about a worry I have about my family. We've been together 2 months, and I feel so happy with him. He says he feels the same around me, and we've just been spending plenty of time ...