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writes:hello,im a 46 year old woman on disability, less than $7,00.oo a month, and im in this relationship with a man 66 years old. he shows his love when im with him, i mean the kissing, holding me, telling me how happy he is to have me, but theres 1 thing that i dont understand, im 2hours away from him. so when we see each other, i do all the driving to go see him, the time i spend with him at his place he cooks, but he wont pay for nothing wile im there, and when i come home he only gives me 40.oo for gas 2 come home on. My car has broken down 2 or 3 times on these visits 2 see him and i had 2 pay to fix my car. when i go to the doctor he wont offer me any money on my doc bill. he goes to the casino and spends 5, 6, or 7 hundred dollars i mean he looses this much, but if i were to ask for money he gets mad, he tells me he wants to marry me, but that hasnt happened yet, so do I just kiss and say goodby to this man, or what?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2010): You are dating, not married. His money is his. Your money is yours. If you can't afford to go see him, tell him to come see you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2010): It doesn't sound like you want a relationship with this man, all it sounds like is you want hand outs from him.
What is it exactly that you want from him?
"when i come home he only gives me 40.oo for gas 2 come home on" why is he giving you money for gas in the first place?
All you've mentioned is money, and if that's all you want then i suggest you leave this man.
You say you're on disability, i don't know your situation so i won't comment on that, but have you ever thought about earning your own money? There are plenty of jobs you can do from home.
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