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Archived questions from: 31 October, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

By the hair of my chinny chin chin...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - hi my question is a quick one, im dating a smart beautiful girl whos been great so far and i have nothing bad to say about her, theres just one thing that bugs me - every time im with her, she has a few hairs on her chin and i just dont have to ...

Can a gift get an ex back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Do men really care if you put a lot of thought into a gift for them or not? i bought my then boyfriend a vintage concert t-shirt to replace the one he got destroyed and had to give it to him after we broke up cause i don't need it... He was ...

Are baby steps the right way to go about this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I am in love with my ex still, its been 3 months till our horrible break up and well, he called me (i was strong) and he said he wanted to work things out, things were okay and kinda flirty, but if hes working things out or trying to work things out ...

He's smoking again and I consider this like cheating!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4768 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both 20 (almost 21) and have been together for a little over four months now. He was a smoker for two years before he started dating me and he told me he would quit once we started dating; that was the ultimatum I set for him ...

Ex says he can't trust me but I want him back.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4924 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were very close friends for 3 years before we started going out, i thought he was amazing, then suddenly there was just no trust in the relationship. He constantly went through my phone and I admit, I don't really have ...

I don't know if I should dump my needy boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - well im dating this guy he is a very nice guy but he calls 24 seven. he never leaves me alone. i need time for my self and he wants me to be around him and i have things to do he would yell at me some times for saying i couldnt come over or talk he ...

Only one date in eight years; need some reassurance

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - Hi. I am 34, single and never been married. I have had one relationship, with a woman, for 10 months, eight and a half years ago. Since then, I have been on one date. I have made friends, like I had an older gay guy friend for two years. Then...

Is he pulling my leg here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - i've been working at my job for 3 years, just like 2 years ago this guy started well like 3 months in to him working then we started having sex but he says he didnt want anything serious but is talking about he wants me to be his baby momma number ...

Why do they only seem to want to be friends with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - Hi! My situation is wired because I'm 22 and I'm still virgin. I'm not ugly but always I have problem to have relationships. Some of the girls are curious to know me but after we pass some time everything changes and most of them want to be only be ...

Sometimes it's clear for me to see how much he loves me but other times I feel like he doesn't care at all.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I don't really know what to say about this situation so I'm just gonna vent and ask for advice. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 months. I've had my share of boyfriend and he's only the second one I've ever loved. He loves me too and I can ...

I would like to see her more often but I don't think she feels the same way...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - Hi. I am in a new relationship about 16 days. We met with each other from a social networking website. Our first date was great. Afterwards, the problems began. She was and is talking about freedom, her own personal space etc. and i told that it's ...

Has he met someone else or just busy with his studies?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4926 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - hey, I am 22 years and an indian. I've been in a relationship with a guy from almost 8 months but we've been friends for about a year. we plan on getting married after 3 years. we are both are still studyin(pg). he has been acting strange lately, ...

I'm 16 and think I'm in love with my 23 year old boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm 16 and I've been talking to a much older guy for about 3 years now. I really like him and feel like I'm in love with him. I know he knows I have a thing for him and he did say he does too but it's hard because of the age and a few other ...

Is it normal to not be affectionate with my family but I am with my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4924 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - I don't cuddle my family and rarly kiss them or tell them I love them, but I cuddle and kiss my girlfriend ands tell her I love her alot, is this normal?... Or am I crazy?...

He says he really likes me but doesn't want a girlfriend.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for a few months now (I have not been sleeping with him) ... He comes down basicully every night after work and college and we watch some t.v and chat. We do sleep in the same bed, although we are not having sex. He seems ...

Opinions on the minimum and maximum ages to date.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I'm a 16, and curious as to your opinion as to what the minimum and maximum age to date would be and why....

He distanced himself from me after my father passed away

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I had been dating this guy for about three weeks when my father died suddenly. When this happened he told me that he wasn't the one who should be there for me and that I needed to be with my family and friends. This was about a week ago and sin...

I have feelings for my boyfriend's best friend but he has a girlfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4927 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Okay, so I've been dating my boyfriend for a couple months now. And the one thing on the back of my mind, is his best friend. I've started developing feelings for him, and it's just come on so randomly. There's just something about him, that clicks ...

B/f dates all these other girls but calls me his "wife"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend who loves me a lot and whom i love a lot too. he has had 2 other girls in his life which he truly loved. am the 3rd one. apart from that he dates 4 girls with whom he does not has true intention. it happens that last time i...

I can't even get a one night stand!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Why is it so hard to get into a relationship? I can't even get a date only a one night stand. The men that want me are too feminine, if i wanted a sensitive partner id turn to women. All the stuck up preps get the guy while the socially awkward girl ...

His text to his friend has hurt my feelings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - ive been together with my partner for 2 years, earlier this feb he wrote a fb message to his female friend about her friend. he wrote OMG WHO IS YOUR FRIEND? i might have to marry her. and his friend replied oo got a crush? ill let her know. he ...

If he needs to watch porn does it mean I am not enough?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I am not sure whether to be offended or not I've been with my boyfriend for roughly 2 years and the only time ive known him to put porn on is when he is trying to wind me up by putting it on the computer so i can see it, but i have recently noticed ...

I have a crush on my bank teller!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4927 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - So it's been a couple years since I've really liked someone. I had my heart crushed so I decided to take some time to focus on myself and what I want out of life. Recently this new guy started working at the bank I go to, and it has certainl...

How to deal with a girl who is always bored

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I have a girlfriend that is always bored. before i met her i was never going anywhere or doing anything. she likes to do things bt get upset when she ask me what i want to do but i always say i dont know. what should i do?...

Going to sit at a table full of girls, the same one that the girl I love sits at. what do I talk about?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - Ok, there is this girl I like a lot, but I would more say it is I love her a lot. She doesn't know I love her. I just want to be friends with her and build a relationship. I am planning to sit at her table at lunch on Monday and I don't know what to ...

What's up with the 'wink'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4928 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - This is something which has been puzzling me recently. I started a new career/job about a year ago and there is a guy who works there occasionally. When he started seeing me around he winked at me. We hadn't really introduced ourselves properly or ...

He's jealous because of the sexual things I did with my ex!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4924 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - i have a question... my boyfriend of 3 years is jealous of the fact that i gave my ex boyfriend oral sex and he ejaculated in my mouth, and ive been with him for 3 years and he has not done it 2 me. first of all my ex boyfriend treated me like a ...