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Archived questions from: 24 October, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My ex is being very friendly, what does he want?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4934 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - okay, im in a comitted relationship with this amazing guy, i adore him, and he adores me, we've been dating for 3 months on the 26th of october :) But i have a few questions, not exactly problems, 1. My mom thinks me and my boyfriend are in a ve...

I want more, and I'm terrified to put everything out in the open he's going to back away.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - I met a man when I was still married. We were both miserable in our marriages and we formed an intense sexual relationship very quickly. He's now separated and I'm divorced. We have become good friends and sleep together on a regular basis. I...

I like her but don't want to be obvious about it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

24 October 2010 (M) - I was invited to a Halloween party by my friend and her friend Casey. I'm really interested in Casey but I'm shy and I haven't really gotten to know her that much. I've only hung out with her(and my friend) once before and last night they came over ...

Since I told him I have herpes he won't contact me...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - Hi everyone i went to the gum clinc and found i had herpes i got treated and told my partner of 3 and half years to get treated at clinc. When i told him i had it he looked at me like he hated me and was disgusted, i walked out crying and he hasnt ...

Controlling relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - I have been this my guy on and off for over 6 years, and seeing as im only 20 we have grown up together. When we meet i was seeing his best friend in 10th grade, and his friend was my first real boyfriend... i didnt know what i was doing just hav...

Why did he ask me "why are you with me???"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - So I just had this disagrement with my dad.. I ask him if he could pay for my cap and gown... I didnt think it was a big deal.. Then I ask him if he could pay half of my senior pics.. He had agreed on everything... Than later right when I was ...

Shy guy didn't ask for my number! Now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - okand today my very good guy friend shane and i were supposed to go for dinner at the last minute he said that he would be inviting this other guy too(mark)..i knew mark existed but i had never really spoken to him,and we met up for lunch and i ...

Where do I stand? Did he ever love me or was I just "something to do?"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4934 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - Last month me and my now ex boyfriend broke up i ended it. I dont know why i did because i really love him but he was selfish and i always came last, i think i ended it for a cry for help for him to come up and show me he loves me and he cant live ...

He's in to me and four other girls too

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - He says he loves me and like 4 other girls. I really like him. After awhile of not seeing him i lose the feelings then when i see him again they come rushing back. I'm 15 he is 17. .Is he just confused?. .If i date him will the stuff with t...

In love with my boyfriend's best mate

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - I'm in love with my boyfriends best mate. I really don't know why but I am and I really don't know what to do. The thing is I can't tell this guy (my bfs best mate) how I feel because it was him in the first place who asked my current boyfriend out ...

Are awkward first kisses normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - ok. so last night i got my first kiss. he walked me to the door went on and on about how he liked me and how i was such a nice girl. he hugged me then he kissed me. but i wasnt expecting the kiss so he only got half of my mouth. it was so awkward ...

Males, what signs no longer show your interested in a woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - I was kind of seeing a guy before my holiday, which was 2 months long. We were having fun and it was all great. I'm back now and things have changed. I messaged him asking how he was and he said that he was now running his company because the boss...

I want both families on side before we marry and it's bugging him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4929 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - I love this guy and he wants to marry me and I do want to marry him as well. But I want both families to say yes before I agree. This bugs him a lot and he has not spoken to me for few days. he says i pressurise him when i call him. i cant get him ...

I really hope to get my ex girlfriend back... But now she got new boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4934 days ago

24 October 2010 (M) - Hi, I am Arthur from Malaysia, i am a Chinese currently 20 and studying/working part-time, well i just broke up with my ex girlfriend(now 18 and just went in to college), we having our relationship for 2 and half year, well normally we will have ...

Little experience with dating after being married, not sure what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4934 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - I have been chit chatting with an old friend online and through text messages for a few months now. I'm really beginning to develop feelings for him. Thing is he's been divorced for about a year and I'm freshly out of a miserable 10 yr. marriage. ...

why I am so unattractive to women!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

24 October 2010 (M) - I want to know why I am so unattractive to women! After getting divorced 3 years ago, I have never had any interest from decent women. I have tried several dating sites and ended up being scammed twice, losing a lot of money from fake women. As for ...

Is he only interested in me for the sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - hi everyone at dear cupid Im very lost and confused at the moment i really really like this guy have done for many months even when he got a gf i liked him,(which he has since split with) Anyway yes i have slept with him a few times but nothing...

I've lost my libido and don't know where to find it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm 19 and female and ever since I discovered sex I've been obsessed with it. Until recently. I've realised that although I still enjoy attention from men and love to flirt and dress up, when it comes to sex I have lost interest. I've been with ...

I think weed is coming between us.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4934 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - okay hey guys im alittle sad and i loveeeee my boyfriend weve been together for a year but i love how we are when were not fighting but when we fight he says somethings.. Like insults me alittle not appearce wise but that im pathic.. Yesterday we ...

I see lying as a lack of respect and self control

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - Can someone say that they have grown and matured after they have cheated on someone, if they plan to never tell their partner they cheated on them? Can someone actually feel that they will never "do it again" and have grown from the experience and ...

She is single again and I would like to pick up where we left off!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4934 days ago

24 October 2010 (M) - I met a girl I shared very strong chemistry with. However before I could ask her out, she was approached by her old friend she knew from a longtime ago and she decided to go out with him. It did not last longer though and she is now single again. I ...

My boyfriend sulks and refuses to talk to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - After any sort of argument we have my boyfriend will sulk and not talk to me. One example back in May was when we had a minor disagreement over something he blanked me and then i suggested we met up to talk things over, that pushed him further into ...

Our LDR seems to be self destructing!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - I need some sound advice... I have been a relationship for almost 1.5 years now. My boyfriend loves me a lot;and i love him a LOT too. But our relationship seems to be self - destructive...its a long distance rel'ship for one. And two, we ke...

He deletes his emails and texts which makes me worry

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - Hello. I'm very confused about my fiancé's behavior lately. He works in a liquor company where they travel every now and then, he is on the phone all day and working on computer as well (home office). It seems that lately all he cares is the stock ...

The process of (LDBI)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

24 October 2010 (?) - This article consists of four simple words, Love, despair, broken, and incomplete. In other words the process of LDBI. Everyone goes through this process atleast once in their life, maybe more. Let me explain this process to you in greater detail. L...

I want to ask him if we are a couple or FWB

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - Ive been seeing my big brothers friend. At first my brother didnt know, but now its out in the open everyone knows. But now Im confused. We spend alot of time together. I see him almost everyday, he calls everyday, we text throughout the day. And I ...

She has a boyfriend but does she like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4933 days ago

24 October 2010 (M) - I met a girl in summer. She really enjoyed messing with me, to the point I'd get a bit angry, like taking my stuff and pushing me. Time passed. I never thought much of her. ...

Boyfriend going through a divorce, how do I help him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4934 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - my boyfriend of 5 months is going thru a divorce. Lately he he has been distant compared to the way he was the first several months. i know he is going thru a lot right now. no matter whether you wanted the big D or not , it is difficult. he say...

I think my b/f likes me older sister

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4935 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - i am 4~5 yrs youngr thn my bf and i had a feeling that he likes my older sister my sis is 2yrs youngr than him and they are both in d sme grade.. it is my 1st time hving a bf ,i dnt really know hw rlationships work and i realize i get jealous ...

Confused! He threw me away but now wants me back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - Ok, I guess if I’m posting then I’m finally desperate enough that I need a answer, Here is the deal guys. Boy #, I have been with him for 3 years, and almost a year ago he broke up with me, we lived together and was very serious, then all sudden h...

My birthday and he put friends ahead of me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4935 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - Tomorrow is my birthday, which is a sunday. I had previously hinted to him that I'd rather go out on saturday night instead of my actual birthday. At the time he encouraged me to go out with my other friends, and was vague about whether he wanted to ...

We had sex, all was good, then he dumped me via text!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - Alright so here's the deal. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a month. Everything was going Super Great! Then one day, The morning was really good.. we woke up together.. we were cuddling.. he told me he loved me and didn't want to lose ...

Why doesn't she want our relationship to be 'official'

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4935 days ago

24 October 2010 (M) - My best friend and I lost our virginities to each other back in the beginning of June right after we graduated from high school. Yes, she is a girl and yes, I am a guy. Anyway, she asked me if I'd be okay with taking her virginity considering she ...

Boyfriend left me because I miscarried

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4242 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - ok, where do i start. i guess it all started 4 years ago. I was with my first boyfriend for ten months. he broke up with me and 2 weeks later he was with my best friend. i lost the 2 of them. my other best friend left too. i was so alone. then came ...

Why would a woman do this to me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

24 October 2010 (M) - I have a question for you ? I am married man who dated a divorced women on and off for 4 years. On many occasion we talked about moving in together. Until the day she told me she was pregnant and she gave me a choice of moving in with her or ...

I've just discovered my boyfriend has female friends he texts

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - Hi people as i live with my boyfriend for over a year, i just thought to use his fone to txt one of my friends then i relaised that he has girls as friends that he never told me abut and they been texting for awhile and im not sure whether to tell ...

Don't want to let him go and don't want to see him with anyone else.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4935 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - I just got back in a relationship with my boyfriend whom i was with for a year and 8 months a couple of days ago. I broke up with him because i just got fed up with his games, lies, and how he treated me. We've been through so much and everytime he ...

Help!!! I know I need to move on, but I'm finding unbelievably hard...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4935 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - Soon after my 18th birthday, i was slightly annoyed at my boyfriend for not taking me out, but then the argument progressed. and then ended up with him finishing with me. However my now ex, has issues with trying to be himself, instead he wants to ...

We always fight! How can I tell him I love and care for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4935 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - me and myboyfriend have fight every day or after one or two days. i know he loves me and i also love him but there is something... like if we get to talk about any thing we end up fighting and i dont know what to do... plz help me and tell me what ...