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Archived questions from: 9 October, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Should I wait for him or not! I need your help please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - hi im 14 years old almost 15,ive been talking to this guy since febuary and we have had a few ups and downs and since about august we have been really really cloase,we talk on the phone everynight we text eachother everyday,we have told eachother ...

All of a sudden he's scared of commitment, should I get out now/

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I started dating about two months ago, the relationship is going pretty fast. We both work interstate for 2 weeks at a time, but we have spent all our time off together. Whilst being at home he told me he wants to meet my family ...

What is the best way to approach her and ask her out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4949 days ago

9 October 2010 (M) - I have known this girl for a long time and we have been friends for a while now. We laugh and cut up in class all the time. Tell each other stories of the past and future. We actually think about that kind of thing, but what is the best way to ...

Is he serious when he says he wants a serious relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - MEN! how would i know when a man is serious when he tells a woman he wants to start a serious relationship? And HOW would i know if he just saying this because he's vulnerable and despaerate to just have someone to be with at that moment and time? ...

Why does a guy behave like that & not speak a word&does he really like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - so this guy in campus has been making eye contact and smiles but that's just it.he never tried to speak to me.and whenever we looked at each other like for few secs he continues to look until I look away. after that I noticed his friends stare at...

Should we tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4949 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - Laura - my best friend Mike - my boyfriend and my best friend Fabio - Mike's best friend and my good friend Well Laura likes Mike ALOT. She knows that I like him as well and that he likes me. What she doesn't know is that we are going out. F...

How can I stop being so mean to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - My ex just broke up with me 2 days ago... He says that I'm tooo mean... I love him dearly but what should I do??? I trip on him off of the smallest things... Help!!! I need it badd!!!:( what do I do... We live together still sooo I know that I ...

I keep on dreaming that one day she will come back to me...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

9 October 2010 (M) - I broke up with my girlfriend few months ago. I made many attemps at reconciliation, but non of them work. FINALLY I GAVE UP. She has cut all contacts with me. She has even changed her phone number. She never reflected on my emails which i recently ...

Why did she do that???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4949 days ago

9 October 2010 (M) - please help!!! my girlfriend and i broke up. we got back together around two weeks later. i begged her to come home even when she was shagging her ex husband whom she is stll liegally married to! the question is.. why do i feel that she cheated? ...

Where art thou Romeo?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - I'm 16, I have never had a boyfriend or never had anyone fancy me. I'm popular, outgoing and loving but no one wants to be with me. It's not that I'm not preety and I'm not fat, just ordinary, people say I look like Dani Harmer, along with the thic...

Subtle flirtation tips needed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - Hi I need some subtle flirtation tips to use tonight on this guy I've fancied for about a month. There is a chance he likes me too but I'm not sure. I'm going out with a group of friends 2nite and he's one of them. Please help!...

How can I get him to prove to me he cares?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4949 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is confusing me. When I'm with him I know that he cares and that he trusts me, but he has problems putting things into words, I get it and I respect that he is still trying to let himself be vulnerable. But it is starting to get to me. ...

Why does my mom speak so badly about my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4949 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - I need help. I'm 20 years of age and living with my mom as I cannot afford to move out yet - my boyfriend and I have been together 9 months. My boyfriend is very responsable, he pays rent, works, studies at university, owns a car and looks...

How to overcome problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - I have been loving one of my best friends, both of us didn't cross our limits) for 7 years. he is all to me but we felt that we cannot convince our parents so we decided to be good friends. suddenly lot of distractions in my life. before 2 years ...

Which is the best choice for the future of my relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

9 October 2010 (M) - Which is the best choice for the future of my relationship? I've seen similar questions asked on here, and decided to post b/c of my situation. I regretebly cheated on my long term girlfriend. I now know it was a horrible mistake. She's the woman I ...

Would you dump your boyfriend if he had a low/poor sexual experience at the beginning of a long term relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

9 October 2010 (M) - I'm 23 and I've only had sex once and that was when in was in my first year at uni. It was pretty simple in that it was just in and out missionary. I haven't slept with anyone since although i am fairly confident when talking to women even ones I f...

I wonder if I am just building false hope for myself

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4949 days ago

9 October 2010 (M) - Hi there, was just wondering if I could get peoples thoughts on this, Theres this guy I met and I have fallin head over heals for him and have done for about 3 months now. But about 2 months ago he started going out with another guy. It wasn't u...

I am crazy about him, is it too soon to tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4946 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for the last 3 months. He cooks me dinner, sends me messages saying sweet dreams almost every night and i'm pretty sure he told me the other night while i was half asleep that he "really likes me". I'm crazy about him but ...

Does playing hard to get work on a shy guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - So this guy and I have a tiny bit of history, ie one night (just kissing). Anyway now he's acting like a bit of a prat. He is the one that didn't want a relationship, no matter how casual. So the other night we were out together because we have a ...

Smooth? Or hairy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - i was wondering if guys like down there smooth or hairy on woman ?...

I think about her every second and its driving me crazy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

9 October 2010 (M) - hello everybody , thanks for the time you re spendin on order to give me some advise , here is my problem , im in a LDR for a long long time , and its been ages since i didnt see my gf, but lately i just cant seem to stop thinking about her, i m...

My OCD boyfriend is very selfish

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4949 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - I have been with my bf for 6 months. He has OCD and everything has to be in specific order with him. He treats me right overall, but throughout the day he says some pretty hurtful things without realizing it. he has poor manners overall and I don't ...

We have been dating for 5 months but now he says he needs some space and time for himself

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4949 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I need some advice. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months, he is separated for 20 months but the divorce is not final. They have a 3 year old together. We have been seeing each other about 2-3 days a week and have professe...

I am in a live in relationship but would like a relationship with another guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4950 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - I have been with my bf for about 2 yrs and weve been had a good relationship. There is another guy tho that I had a relationship with (kinda) and we have started to talk again and he's started to invite me to hang out again. My bf doesn't like that ...

I want to know how to approach girls

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4950 days ago

9 October 2010 (M) - Hello A few weeks ago my girlfriend broke up with me a few days before our 1 year anniversary. We are still decent friends and talk frequently. She told me that this weekend she is going on a date and may begin to date. I want to move on and begi...

Did I do something to turn him off?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - I'm in Boston right now, met a cool guy. We hung out for a month, then he made a move on me and we've been close since then. I'm leaving Sunday to go back to the UK, we've hung out but he's different. Not as close, he's tired from class which I ...

I found out my boyfriend was going to cheat on me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend of 1 year and 8 months, i love him and i do think he loves me were generally very happy, we brokme up for a month in summer and got back together in august, the problem is while we were getting back together he'd been talking to ...

How can I be happy and single?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - All advice would be much appreciated! I'm 16 and have never had a boyfriend, and I think I need to work on myself for now as I keep having crushes and it's distracting me from school. So what do single people do in order to make themselves happy...

How can I progress to having sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

9 October 2010 (M) - My girlfriend takes most of the same college courses in my county local community college, we like each other and visit each other all they time. The farthest I've got is making out. How can I take it a step further and have sex with her? Please ...

My male friend is mad at me because I talked to my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - A male friend of is mad at me because I had a conversation with my ex-boyfriend today.I quit being friends with my ex about 2 months ago..My ex has called and text,but I havent responded... So my male friend told me just to text him and say I had ...

Open relationship to save a long distance relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

9 October 2010 (M) - i'm in the forces and soon i'll be going away for 6 month. 3 Months ago i met a girl while i was away with work and have gotten into what seems like a really intense and serious relationship. We seem to have fallen for each other and are talking ...