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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2010): welcome to the real world. You are not defined by who you are in a relationship with, or not. You also should have other interests that are important to you, not just things you do with the current man in your life. And at your age your studies are paramount. Even more important than this boy. Most relationships, especially early teen ones, do not last. All relationships need give, take, tolerance and understanding. It is so boring when someone just wants to stare moon faced and be soppy all the time. It's overwhelming. And it drives males or females away. No one can put up with it for long. Its immature love. And immature love never reveals the full depth of a person as often you are still developing as a person and do not even know your own strengths and weaknesses yet. When a male is in love with you, right at the beginning, he may find one hour with you is like a fleeting minute. You fascinate him, for a while he doesn't know for sure who you are. He'll pay attention to you until he's learned all he wanted to know or experiencce with you. But that's the early stage. It does not last, usually. If his love for you is truly genuine, and continues to grow he will find ways to choose to be with you. But that is the rare true love. At the end of the relationship his one minute with you will seem like ten miserable hours to him. As he becomes more accustomed to you he may start to take you for granted. And want to see you less. . Especially if his interest in you is waning.
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reader, LoveSickMelody  +, writes (30 October 2010):
 if he's not interested you should'nt have to change yourself for him he should love you for who you are not who he wants you to be. this relationship may not be worth it. your still young so you'll find someone else that deserves you in their life.
i hope this helps. it may sound a bit harsh and i'm sorry for that but the truth is what will help you move on...
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (30 October 2010):
 Any woman can only get complete attention from her boyfriend, and be on the top of his list if priorities, if he truly loves her. This however is what I believe and have experienced. A boy/man who is in love will give you undivided attention.
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