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Shouldn't she just trust me?

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Question - (30 October 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 October 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

im seeing this girl now for 6 months now and we really get on well, we cant believe how things are after happening so quick but we didnt try slow them down because everything feels right. but latey we are having a few little arguments. when we are toghter everything couldnt be better we get on so well but its when were apart things get a bit bad. i live with a few housemates who tend to play the field which results in girls being over but when she hears this she can tend to say something smart, i can understand where she is coming from but i promised i would never cheat on her, trust me i wouldnt!! im crazy about her, she is the first that everything feels right,apart from our few little things! :)

i understand that she just might be jealous that theres girls around but shouldnt she just trust me?? she usually stays over a couple of nights a week but for me sometimes i would like to see her more but she has a few friends lately that want a lot from her. every night there is someone asking her to meet up and i am an understandable guy and i dont mind because i know how important friends are but i feel like she is trying to please everyone and our relationship is lacking because of it, am i being unfair and thinking of myself when i say i want to see more of her?

Tonight she is calling over to a friend that she had an argument with due to the fact the never get to see each other enough and im meeting her after it and we are gonna have a quiet night in and spend some quality time together.i know its going to be great but i dread when were apart.. are all these things going to finish us or can it work out like i hope it can, we talk about the future and us in years to come and it feels and sounds right..does anyone else see some hope??

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A female reader, ashie31 United States +, writes (30 October 2010):

I think you guys have hope. sit her down and explain to her you wish u guys would spend more time together. in the end of it all whats meant to be will work out.i wish the best for you guys

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