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Dating: Help and advice

Getting a girlfriend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

21 October 2010 (M) - Hello I am a 17 year old male. I have never had a girlfriend before never kissed a girl nothing. Never had anyone really love me. I don't have any friends that are girls. Thing is I been talking to girls but I have not asked them out. I want to g...

Tempted to break up with her for someone else but what if it doesn't work out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

21 October 2010 (M) - Using an old account, currently 18. Hmm, well, this is a tricky one. I've been going out with someone for a year, she's lovely and we're best friends. This october i've started university, and am living 2 hours from home. Problem 1: I don'...

Am I smothering her here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4936 days ago

21 October 2010 (M) - My gf and I used to date three years ago for about two months and she broke up with me cause things got too heavy too fast. I was devastated. After a while we became friends again. We work together but not in the same department. Any ways, we start...

She says she has no time to herself and I'm scared she'll break up with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

21 October 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend, we are both around 20. We are together for almost 2 years. I really love her and care about her. We had our ups and downs, many times in the last year. Many reasons, not always the same, every time we had an argument or figh...

Don't know who to choose... help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4937 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - Hello! ok i'm in a bit of a situation, and it's starting to really upset and confuse me. i met a guy, and have been with him 8 months. he's pretty much perfect to me, well mostly. he treats me well. everything was going well, but i started going ou...

If a guy doesn't call or text his girlfriend everyday, does that mean he doesn't love her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

21 October 2010 (M) - Is it necc. for me to call my girlfriend everyday just to prove that I love her deeply? I don't like talking on the phone much...I will text, but I don't want to feel obligated to call or text her or anyone else. Why do people put all these rules on ...

Ashamed of telling my boyfriend where I live. Any tips to approach this topic?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - I have a serious issue. I'm with my bf for more than a year and... he doesn't know where I live. Actually, I don't want him to know. I came for college in an important city, from a small village. My bf lives in the college town. I'm ashamed to t...

Annoyed that my friend backstabbed me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4937 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - So my boyfriend and I broke up on and off about 3 weeks ago, but kept talking and arguing for a few weeks. It was getting so difficult that last week i decided to completly cut off all communication with him because he kept leading me on. I am still ...

How can I attract guys at this party to ask me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4937 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - I'm 18 years old, and have not been in a relationship. Someone asked me out but I knew I would not last 1 day with him. I fancied this guy at my badmington club but he has recently got a girlfriend. I have 3 partys coming up where I will be ...

I'm completely in love with my friend but don't want my boyfriend to get hurt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - There's this guy I used to have a massive crush on and now we are going out. The problem is we've got nothing in common and he bores me to death. Another problem is that I've started to have feelings for my friend. He's a really cool guy and is ...

We went out and had a great time but he's hardly texting me now

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - So an old college 'guy' friend from last year popped up at the beginning of the month with an email on facebook. After that he text me constantly and wanted to meet me and said loads of sweet, nice things about me. I met up with them one weekend and ...

Don't always believe him when he says he loves me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4937 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - My bf of 2 yrs (now) broke my trust just under a year ago by seeing his ex behind my back and quite inappropriately flirting with another girl. We made up and now we're good again. Except he says he feels like I never believe him when he says he ...

I'm mad at myself for being so vulnerable

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - So I asked a question before about this guy I liked and whether to tell him I liked him etc...and everyone said to go for it and I did...He knew I liked him and this time I just went for it...Well he replied he has a girlfriend and wanted to make it ...

Do I have a reason to be worried about my boyfriend's past drug use?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

21 October 2010 (?) - I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and eight months. We've lived together for about two. Early on in the relationship, I knew he had had some one-night stands in previous years, between the ages of 18 and 20. He also told me he had smoked ...

How can I avoid dwelling on "what ifs"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - Hey, I'd appreciate your comments/insight into the emotions I've been feeling lately about my new bf of 2 months, and some advice on how to make myself less worried, please. Everything is going great, I think he's lovely, and he's told me he'...

We have different attitudes toward fitness and it's bothering me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4937 days ago

21 October 2010 (M) - I've been dating a wonderful woman for 2.5yrs, I broke up with her because the relationship was in limbo. 3 days passed, I missed her and knew I loved her and want to be with her. 3 months later I convinced her to get back with me. 2 months ...

After a couple of bad relationships I'm afraid of being used

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

21 October 2010 (M) - Hiya everyone! Well, I don't know where to begin. And I'd just like to really talk to someone about it I guess. I'm 19. I have Asperger's Syndrome. Fortunately, I was diagnosed when I was 7, and by now, no one even realizes I even had it. My love ...

I just don't understand guys!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - I don't get it. I met this nice guy at a friend's party a while back, exchanged numbers and now if I have any contact with him its only because I initiated it! The funny thing is I didn't ask for his digits, I asked if he was a member of a certain ...

Would a guy pick the girl with the big boobs?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - embarrassing question... :S would a guy rather a girl with an athletic body, LOTS of muscle, long legs, a six pack, and a good bum but has small boobs (A)... or would he rather a girl with an average or skinny body, with big boobs? both girls hav...

I'm not ready for a relationship so why do I even care if this guy contacts me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4937 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - I went on a first date recently...it was a little awkward just because I had first date jitters. I asked him if he wanted to hang out again, which I guess I shouldn't have, but I couldn't help myself. He said that he would like to hang out again, ...

Why does my boyfriend like his ex's butt better?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - Ok i am totally aware as to how ridiculous this is but omg help!! So im in a long distance relationship, been with him now for 2 years (both our longest relationships so far)and we see each other not often but atleast take 3 holidays per yea...

Why would my boyfriend do that? am really hurt:

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - my boyfriend has been chattinng to this girl who likes him.. shes been really flirty with him. i saw her text messages yesterday and i replied back to her.. i asked my bf he said i have nothing to worry about and that i have no idea how ...

My long distance relationship has problems.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4938 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - I have been in this relationship for 11/2 yrs. We were in a distant relationshp 2 hrs. He was trying hard and took turns traveling to see each other. I had been going through my own thing, graduated from college and could not find a job for 8 ...

Shy guys! How do you respond best to girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - Shy guys. Please give me the lowdown. For example: How do you respond best to girls? Or how you like to flirt? If you hadn't had a girlfriend before, how would you like a girl to approach you? Is virginity reall such a big deal? Please give me some ...

Her mom says I can't be trusted and now I can't see her till she's 18!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4937 days ago

21 October 2010 (M) - Hey Im kind of going through the same thing here only we've only been dating for a year but its been the best year of my life so far :) well her parents made us break up because her mom says I can't be trusted and i can kind of see where shes coming ...

What else can I do to make her feel happy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4937 days ago

21 October 2010 (M) - hi i have been i love with this girl for over an year,and things have always been ok. She has been very easy going . When we got together, she told me that was a phase and now she wanted a serious, long term relationship. the question existed ...

Torn between my ex and his friend, who should I choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - Ok, i dont really know how to start this off so im just gonna jump in. me and my boyfriend have been going out for amost a year now. and in that year hes been to jail 10 times. I love him to death. but now he just got out the other day and ...

I feel my girlfriend is holding back on her affections!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

21 October 2010 (M) - Im 20 and my gf is 16, yea yea some of you think thats wrong. But i dont plan on having sex with her anytime soon, im in it for a relationship. We have been dating for 2 months now and we have a good relationship and we love each other. But ...

Do I stay with the old? Or go with the new?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4937 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - I've been happily with someone for the past 15 months. There has been nothing wrong with our relationship. He is the only one I feel comfortable around, and can completely be myself around him. And he thinks I'm absoulutely pefect, and does anything ...

I want a first kiss without being controlling!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - How can I make a move to have a first kiss with my boyfriend without coming off as the controller in our relationship? We haven't kissed yet, and I know he wants to, but he's scared to try. Any advice?...

How to keep him guessing.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - Girls, you know how guys say we're complex? Good news for you, they love it. Mystery is what turns a guy on the most. It's like a puzzle a game or a search, so how do you keep the search going when you are in a relationship with him? 1. During t...

I want to stop being jealous of the guy she lost her virginity to!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

21 October 2010 (M) - hey, me again. Warning you ahead of time that this is quite long, and I'm not a good writer so bear with me. Here is some info to start with- Ok me and my girl have been going out for 6 months now. We are in a committed Long distance ...

The guy that made me feel alive again.. but he's taken now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - im 17,just call me joy a girl who didnt want to fall inlove again because of my ex-boyfriends who once destroyed my life then leave me so after my last boyfriend i decided not to love again cause im scared that i might be the one who will suffer at ...

Does my girlfriend like me anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

21 October 2010 (M) - I think my gf does not like me..... To start the story off we met through friends. By giving us each others number. We then hit it off we txt all the time and every night chat on phone for average 2hours (once 7hours) via this voda sim. We live in ...

Why is my boyfriend suddenly ignoring me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - my boyfriend is very trustworthy and our relation is for 3 years. but now-a-days i feel that he is ignoring me, not talking with me like previous. i am not understanding his problem. i asked him several times but he is avoiding my question.is he ...

Why can't a guy get it in his head a girl is taken?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - So I have a boyfriend, but there is this one random guy who is insisting I'm like a whore because I'm friendly and have guy friends but I also have girlfriends too, but this one guy knows I'm taken, and keeps asking me to do stuff. I've told him to ...