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Archived questions from: 22 October, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He has changed, could he be cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is acting very different and i keep getting this feeling that he's cheating on me, how do i know for sure? And then what do i do if he is ?...

I know how to talk to women, I have a car, a job, how come I can't get a girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4935 days ago

22 October 2010 (?) - I'm 20 years old and still a virgin. Never even been in a relationship. Is there something wrong with me? I don't really think there is a reason for this to happen to me. I am a nice and decent looking guy who has a car, steady job. Is there ...

Making girlfriend my top priority

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

22 October 2010 (M) - how can i make my girlfriend feel like she is my top priority?...

Am I doing something wrong or has he gone off me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4936 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - hi my self and my boyfriend used to have a fantastic love life now he dont seem to be inerested and just lies there for me to get him arosed he dont touch me anymore and instead of kissing me i get the odd peck when we have sex its 2 pumps an a ...

What should I wear to go and see my bf ???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - My bf always looks soooo amazing but I never know what to wear when I got and see him coz I don't know what boys like to see girls in can u help ???...

How do I get this guys attention......again!!!!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - i liked this guy last year and we seemed to have a really close connection but we fought a lot. i really wanted to date him but i was to scared to tell him how i really felt,although i think he secretly knew. then i got fed up with the arguing and ...

Embarrassed because I've never had a relationship

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - i'm 16 nearly 17 and i never had a relationship and its getting to the point where i cant tell know one because i feel imbarassed to tell my friends and family except my mum who understands.I do want a relationship but know one has ever taken an ...

Two guys want to go out with me, which to choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - I'm really confused. I've just been asked out by two people. One of them I've been crushing on for a while and now i've even started dreaming about him! The other one is really nice and I've actually started to sort of fancy him. The thing is the ...

He lied about his age and about being previously married. Is this salvagable?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for about 7 months. About a month ago, I found out that he lied to me about his age. He initially told me he was 35, and when we first began dating he made a really big deal about the age difference ("Are you sure my ...

I've blown it now he wont speak to me, what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - As the title says ive blown it with my boyfriend. I said something to him on Sunday night which was very accusing and since then he wont talk to me. Ive text, sent an email and for the first time tried to call him earlier but he wont answer. I do ...

My girlfriend is horrible at showing affection!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

22 October 2010 (M) - My girlfriend (26) and I (24) have been going out for 4 months. The affection is horrible!!! I am frustrated and very openly venting to all of you as I really wouldn’t otherwise and I am really looking for some help if my perception of this is ...

I really like him but don't want to loose him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - Ok, so basically I really like this boy. We have known each other for ages and we went out a few years ago. But, I ended it because it wasn't going anywhere and I have regretted that decision ever since. A few months ago he broke up with his ...

I like him but he doesn't show any signs of liking me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - Ok well every since like 2nd grade i had a crush on this guy we will call him john. Well i moved away in 4th grade and now i came back in the middle of 7th and now 8th. I still like him. Thing is he doesn't like me. I have gym with him and sometimes ...

I am crazy about him but he has anger issues.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - Me and my ex have been on and off for the last 4 years. Everytime we get into a serious arguement he desides he doesnt want the rship and breaks it of. I have never broke up with him. I just guessed it was commintment issuses. Hes a very stub...

My boyfriend might be interested in another girl. Do I keep this going?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together about 10months. We've made plans in the next 5 years to live together and eventually get married. But I can't help but feel that time won't come. One time when we broke up it was for another girl he started to ...

My boyfriend is turning into my charity work

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4935 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - Hi Gang - I recently agreed that my boyfriend could move into my houseshare whilst he relocated to the west country for work. unfortunately the job he was offered fell through, so now he is living in my room, unemployed and cant afford to move on ...

He's still on a dating site. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - I met a guy on a dating site nearly a month ago and we met two nights after our first chat and it went well. The second night he cooked for me and that was superb. The third night I saw him, we both said it was lovely and going well and we're both ...

I left a bad relationship with a now deceased ex and I'm troubled by my feelings

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - I left my fiance in 2006 for a guy who I thought was great. At first everything was great, then came the excessive drinking and drug use. I wasn't one to do drugs, but I did end up doing them with this guy. After 3 mos together I caught him ...

I don't know if he likes me, should I stay with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4936 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - I am in love with this guy he tells me that he love me to but he is the kind of guy that goes with girls but he tell me he love me so much but i stop and think if he loves me.Also i am a Virgin i am in high school and i am scair of what happened if ...

I'm just getting a little concerned that he's not that into me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - I met this really great guy online. Initially I contacted him because he had a very thoughtful profile and it seemed like he had great values. Then we met for our first date, and I found him to be super hot! We've been on three dates so far. Th...

We had sex while b/f's dad was home, does that make me a slut?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - My bf and I have been dating for a few months, he lives at home with his dad. We spend a lot of time at his house and his dad is really nice. The other night we were there we wnet to in his room just to hang out and we started kissing this kept ...

What should I expect from this visit? We are about to embark on a long-distance relationship, I hope!

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22 October 2010 (M) - Finally, I met a wonderful girl. We were both in the same place doing an internship this past summer. She quickly became one of the best friends I've ever had, and we did everything together over the summer. The problem was, she was in a ...

How do I catch the attention of a guy I hardly even see?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4936 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - Okay basically, there's a guy at work that I like. The thing is, I work at a sports stadium so if I ever want to see him then it's on match days. But the stadium is so big that I hardly do get to see him. I know what bar he works in (a lil bit of ...

I really like her but we haven't met up yet

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4936 days ago

22 October 2010 (M) - This has been bothering me alot recently, there is this girl and i really like her she is a year older than me. We both really like each other yet we have not met up yet. she lives only round the corner and i cant stop thinking about her. We always ...

Is this a bad sign? Lack of eye contact

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - Hi there I am worried about something but it sounds trivial. My boyfriend hardly ever makes prolonged eye contact with me. I think he does love me because he tells me he does, and he puts me first. Plus we love to be in each others company, but...

Must I spend the rest of my life alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

22 October 2010 (M) - I have been single for some years now after the break up of a very serious relationship (eight years). Since that time I have had one short-term relationship that ended when I discovered I was being used. Prior to that I had two other serious ...

Is he really interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4936 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - Is he interested? I have know a guy a long time through work and when I left I gave him a note just saying "I would like to keep in touch and if you ever want to meet for a coffee or a chat give me a call" I thought this would have no pressure...

Help! I am fed up with my father and am not sure my boyfriend loves me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4936 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - Hi there.. I basically have 2 queries.. 1. I am fed up of my father who just doesnt understand me ever and whenever i try to do so, he takes everything in a wrong manner and verbally abuses me each time in front of others. Then i feel like goin...

What justifies pursuing a girl in High School?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4936 days ago

22 October 2010 (M) - Hello, Though this site seems to mainly serve a slightly older community, I've a question on high school relationships. What justifies pursuing a girl? As a mere sophomore, I've no real experience with dating. I would like very much to find mys...

My boyfriend's 6 yr old son has recently started disrespecting me..what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4936 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has a 6 yr old son that recently has started disrespecting me for the past month or two. Whenever he doesn't get his way he pinches or hits me. Sometimes he pinches me for no reason. Every time I tell my boyfriend he brushes it off. We ...

He backs away when I try to kiss him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4936 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - So there is this guy that i really like and he likes me back, we both know about it and we've cuddled, held hands...really basic stuff. the problem is he always backs away when i try to kiss him and he is always hesitant to hang out with me. never ...

Younger guys just don't have what I want!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - I'm 19 years old.I'm only attracted to older guys,I'd say guys i find attractive are always between the ages of 25-40 is this normal? Because i feel like this isn't normal and im weird. I never have and never will be attracted to guys younger ...

I'd like to be with her, should I try to contact her again or forget it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4935 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - So in July I met this great girl online. She lives in the next town. She randomly messaged me one day and we clicked. We got to know each other, She kept pushing to see me, so we did, I had a really great time we went somewhere where it was just us ...

Wanted: Unattached Male

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

22 October 2010 (M) - I stumbled onto a news article online that has got me thinking. It was so much like a question here on "Dear Cupid". The author had just been through a breakup and was Writing advice based on her experience. She entitled the article something ...

My friend set us up, but he came on too strong

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - i dont know how to handle this. i have met up with this guy a couple of times. one of my friends has tried to set us up. he has never had a girlfriend, even though he is in his 30's, but i have dated a few men. i dont feel attracted to him, but he ...

My sister is dating my abusive ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

22 October 2010 (?) - My twin sister is dating my ex boyfriend. I am not really happy about it, not because he is my ex but because he was abusive and everything to me. I don't really know how to tell her this. Any advise would be great....

Sweden verses UK

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is Swedish and I'm English. He thinks England is backward and old. He liked some parts of it but generally I got the feeling that he was disappointed. It annoys me because he keeps yapping on and on about Sweden and how amazing e...

Bedtime capers!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

22 October 2010 (M) - I have an issue. My girlfriend get very upset with me when we try to sleep in the same bed. I toss and turn when I sleep. She says that I knee and elbow her. She yells at me for this even though I tell her that I am not doing it intentionality and ...