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Archived questions from: 15 October, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I'm the only one in my group who hasn't had a boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4942 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - Ok, I'm 14 and a freshman in highschool. I never, ever not once in my life ever had a boyfriend. Though in Junior high, most guys and girls start dating but as for me, not one boy asked me out. Well, when I was in the seventh grade, a boy asked me ...

I say g/f is hot, friends think she's not

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

15 October 2010 (M) - I love my Girlfriend but my friends say she's ugly. I think she's hot. How do I get my "friends" to stop?...

Jealousy and Birth Control

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - MODERATOR'S NOTE: Two questions from same asker combined: Q: 1 I am deeply in love with my boyfriend and bestfriend, will call him Victor. Victor and I are quite compatible, so for the most part things rolls along smoothly, but I do have a probl...

Am I lowering my standards or changing for the better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - MODERATOR'S NOTE: TWO questions from same asker combined. Q: 1 I'm in a long distance relationship with my bf. We met each other during our exchange studies, spent more than half a year physically together. This is my first serious relationship...

I have her number, a FB friends request pending, we will be seein each other in class, but how do I ask her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

15 October 2010 (M) - Hey Aunts and Uncles, I need some advice on how to get a date with this girl I met recently. So here's everything you might need to know in order to give me something good: We met in the university, in our psychology class, 2 weeks ago. She w...

My boyfriend is being weird !

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4943 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - i had sex with my boyfriend for the first time(am not a virgin) after, he said it felt right but he feels guilty cos he was selfish and would've waited till i was sure./.. but i was sure..he asked me 5times if i were sure and i said yes each tim...

How do I get him to propose?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 weeks now. Since day one we agreed it is a serious and committed relationship..two weeks after we started dating he took me to his home town for the weekend and show me around and also meet jis family it was ...

Why don't white hot guys date black girls?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4768 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - I am a black, fairy attractive young female. I've always been attracted to white guys because of my background. I'm pro interracial relationships and plan to settle down with a different race (white). I want to know why is it that hot attractive w...

Sexually frustrated... again...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4941 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - 27... I'm starting to believe I'm sexually frustrated and can't resolve my problem... After I broke up with my ex 4 years ago, I never dated or been in another relationship other than fuck buddies with no strings attached, when I was with my ex I...

Was there a little shine there maybe?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - is he Interested or not?? Just returned from a cruise and a much younger man who I fancied from before was still working on there-several people always book to go back on. he is going on another ship soon but I wont rebook Last time I was on t...

Should I just cut him out of my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4940 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - I feel I'm in need of some objective perspectives/feedback, so that's why I'm on this website. I've been seeing this guy officially for about a month now (September). We had some drama (3rd para) initially but I thought it was dealt with. So we ...

Simple question on asking someone out.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

15 October 2010 (M) - Hi, just a simple and quick question: If I make an excuse to enter this girls office at work (Any excuse will do) - is it too rash to, after I strike up a conversation, say "Blah, blah, blah.... by the way, I know this is quite out of the blue ...

My girlfriend is jealous because I have to dance with another girl at a wedding!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

15 October 2010 (M) - I'm having a big problem. My best friend is getting married and I'm the best man. I have to dance with the bridesmaid and my girlfriend is pretty mad with me for that. I told her that its just a dance nothing more than that .. but still she's so ...

How can I get up the nerve to break things off with my long distance girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

15 October 2010 (M) - I'm a rather shy guy, and not very good at standing up for myself, so it was really hard to try and break up with my girlfriend. My girlfriend and I had been long distance for well over a year, but things haven't been going so well. I decided that ...

Will my boyfriend continue the cycle of abuse?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - Well me and Caleb have been dating for years. His dad abused his mom(not really in front of him). He has also done the same to Caleb and choked him even just last week for grades..he fights back with his dad whenever this happens. Thank god because ...

New boyfriend stopped calling. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - I Recently met this guy, we went on a few dates n ended up sleeping 2gther, we did it mor than once nw, i dont know where i stand with him, bt i knw tht he has a girlfrnd, i sometimes only see him once a week, bt he used to call and now all of a ...

My marriage date is set, my chat friend lied and I am getting all negative!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - i m at d worst stage of life. i m a just passed out enggineer age 22. my parents promised me for havin an mba n just after d month i graduated they fixed out a guy 4 marriage.i did a blunder 2 yrs earlier by being in a relationship wid a married ...

I fell in love and then found she works as an escort

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

15 October 2010 (M) - Hi all, I just want to write something what is going on in my life and hope to have some feedback from you readers. I'm a 32 year old Dutch guy who is single for a few years now, i have been dating in these years, but i just cant find a gi...

Should I accept my boyfriend's mother's facebook friends request?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4940 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - I'm not sure what to do. My boyfriend's mum has sent me a friend request on facebook, and i dont know whether to add her or not. We get on pretty well, but i had a look at her profile without confirming the friend request, and she sometimes writes ...

He was seeing somebody else all during my pregnancy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend I have been together for almost 2 years. 4 months ago I gave birth to his son and not long after that I found out he had been seeing someone for a year. But he said nothing was going on and she said the same, though people have sai...

He thinks he is being funny but I find it a real put off!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - Help please I have this man i'm seeing and have been for quite a long time. What is bugging me about him is the fact that he likes to tease me because he likes the way i bite back at him.well i don't mind a joke but some of the things he says t...

I am fed up of doing all the chasing with her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4935 days ago

15 October 2010 (M) - i have been seeing this lovely woman whom i met on a date site, i like her a lot although we dont see each other much she lives 15 miles from me. when we do meet i always treat her nice ie meals etc however my problem is she will not get in touch ...

How can I ask this girl out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

I like a guy, but he tells me he doesn't want love right now?

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15 October 2010 (F) - He's a friend of mine and he broke up with his girl friend recently and is very hurt. I like him, but when he tells me those things I back off. I know he has been introduced to girls and he has been hanging out with them. I want him to know I'm ...

I'm not ready to have sex with him, but I'm afraid he'll break up with me if I don't!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - well i'm 15 and my boyfriend wants to have sex his 16 and i kinda want to wait a year or two i love him alot and i dont want him to brake up with me if i tell him no. how do i tell him i want to wait without him braking up with me?...

I was scared so I pushed him away and now he doesn't want to be with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4943 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - ok so it goes like this, I have been single and afraid to date anyone for the past 5 months. Till one day sitting on a deli bench I met a guy who totally sweeps me off my feet we are perfect for one another. Then I start doing it, the pushing him ...

Why did he get quiet after I asked him if he was sure if he wanted to live with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4944 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have known each other for 6 years. We decided to get back together earlier in the year. He lives 2 counties away and have to pass my county to go to work. So i asked him did he want to live with me to make his travel better. He ...

My boyfriend is very popular and some days it really gets to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4944 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - My bf is very popular with girls [in that he has many many girl mates who are always contacting him and wanting to see him]. He won't cheat and I know he loves me. But I still struggle on those downer days where you overthink everything. How can I ...

Should I dump the girl I love to go for a hotter girl?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

15 October 2010 (M) - Hi I am currently in a relationship with someone I love. My friends say she is gross and ugly. A "hotter" girl likes me but I don't like her. Should I dump my current gf and go for the other one?...

Be a Single mother searching or a in a false marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

15 October 2010 (F) - I am 19 and my fiancee is 25 we ave a 6 month old son, Our relationship began when we mt at work and at the time i was still honing over my first love whom i had been tryin to get back with for 2 years, so when he told me he loved me i think i was ...