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Dating: Help and advice

He isn't here for me the way I am for him! My grandma died and he hasn't been of any help at all!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for three months and our relationship is good and bad. we have taken breaks and end up missing each other too much and get back together before the break is over! but a few days ago my grandma died and he hasn't ...

Do I really feel love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4933 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - I ask my bf friends about him just to know what he's doing and stuff on fb, and one of them told me that I'm in love with him but i told him i'm not because i can't love someone i haven't had and he said well you're doing the same things as his ...

Why do all women give me dirty looks or turn away from me in disgust if I happen to look at them? Is a girlfriend an impossibility for me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

25 October 2010 (M) - I am 41 years old and have never had a girlfriend in my life because I am completely unattractive and gave up on women in my mid-twenties. I decided to concentrate on work. I belong to a photography group and work out in a gym two or three nights ...

Should I wait to see if he'll leave his girlfriend

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - I know this 30 year old guy for a few years he used to come in my shop. Had not seen him for a few months when he started coming in my shop again. after a few times coming in my shop, I told him I had divorced from my husband. The next thing he did ...

He says I'm the one for him, but I'm concerned about his passion for sports!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - I am a 27 year old female and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over a year now. We live together now, and he constantly brings up marriage and children and tells me he has no question in his mind that I'm the one for him. I really ...

Is he just messing with my head? Why is he saying this stuff?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

25 October 2010 (?) - I'd like people's opinions on this as i'm a bit confused. My friend, who used to be a fbw/buddy a while back has been acting a bit strangley towards me. He recently was chatting online and said he thought i was amazing and he always has but he lives ...

Young & Virgin, are they really that weak?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (M) - Of course, I have never had any relationship experience, but a lot of my friends were virgin and their first bf that had sex with them always a dodgebag asshole. Although, they tend to stick with those guys for a year or two before they realize it. ...

FWB, then we are exclusive, then back to FWB. Now I'm pregnant.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - My bf and i have been together for a little over a year. our relationship is quite complicated. we met and both of us had been hurt and decided we didnt want a relationship or to be in love. well. HA we broke our own rules fell in love and became ...

I miss my ex, but I'm afraid of breaking my new guy's heart

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - I think i'm in one of the hardest situations ever in my life. Usually people think that getting their heart broken is the worst thing to deal with but for me breaking someone else's heart seems to be a lot worse. I have my heart broken by someo...

What a web! What do I do next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I broke up 3 months ago.(Nasty break-up) He instantly got in a relationship which ended over the weekend because a girl kissed him and he kissed her back. I was in a month-long relationship which ended two weeks ago because the ...

What should I do next with this new contact?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4933 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - I met a guy a month ago on a night out and we swapped phone nos. We don't stay near each other so didn't arrange to meet, then recently he texted me a couple of times, but now he's not replied to my last text which had asked a question so I know it ...

Needing more reassurance than she seems prepared to give

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

25 October 2010 (M) - I want to ask some relationship advice, because I've only been with one girl, met her last year, she dumped me after two months, some time after we broke up I told her that I have an autism spectrum disorder, she said: if I had known things would've ...

I know my girlfriend is the best option for me, but I am having some feelings for a friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

25 October 2010 (M) - I am 17 and my girlfriend is in the year below me and is 16. I have been with my girlfriend kim for just over 20 months just now and it has always been briulliant. Everything has always been perfect. At the start I was the lovestruck clingy one ...

Iv been cheated upon in previous relationships and its making me insecure about my present one!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for a year and he's my bestfriend but im very inscure because previouse boyfriends have cheated on me i keep thinking everytime he's not with me hes with other girls and it makes us argue alot, i don't know what to do ...

Why do I feel guilty about this kiss? Was this cheating or am I beating myself up for nothing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

25 October 2010 (M) - I met my now girlfriend on a Friday night 3 months ago, went out, partied, had a great time. We went back to a friends, ended up talking, kissing goodnight, and had some mutal interest. The next day we exachanged numbers and like all times i've met ...

He said he loves me and is missing me and suddenly wants nothing to do with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 8 months previously we had been best friends for a few years. We have been having a difficult month due to moving home and him being made redundant. Then one day out of the blue he text me to say he wasnt happy, w...

Does she sound interested? Should I try to sit next to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

25 October 2010 (M) - She introduced herself to me. Ignored what the other guy said when speaking to me. Stood close to me while entering classroom. Waited until I finished a conversation to say hi. Asked me to sit next to her so she wouldn't be alone. Her arm and foot ...

Is it decietful to not confess to cheating in the past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - MOD NOTE Two questions from same asker combined. Q: 1 Can someone say that they have grown and matured after they have cheated on someone, if they plan to never tell their partner they cheated on them? Can someone actually feel that they will ne...

My best friend? or the guy she likes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - Hi to all who read this...well I need some help there this guy I like I found him at my friends party he was sweet,nice, funny and so on but he is a good friend of my friend which is a she and now I want to get to know him better but I found out ...

I am really shy and don't know how to approach this girl in my class! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

25 October 2010 (M) - i like a girl of my age who was my classmate when i was in the tenth class so i am really shy and do not know how to propose her. Can anyone help?...

When you're in love don't you want to see someone as much as possible?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4909 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - Why would my boyfriend do that? am really hurt:(? ?My boyfriend claims he loves me so much but yet we only see each other ones a week. We don't live far from each other. I asked him I would like to see him more, he said ones a week is enough cos it ...

If I live in his place then I guess we can't date???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

25 October 2010 (?) - I met a new man a month or two ago and have met up with him about 3 or 4 times. I really like him and have been really excited about seeing him each time. We spent Sunday together, had a lovely day outdoors and then to the pub and then to have ...

She said her feelings for me are "in the grey zone"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

25 October 2010 (M) - Hi, During the summer I met this woman through a mutual friend. I quickly became friends with her and over time ~3 months I started to develop stronger feelings for her. She's smart, original clear headed, has strong values and is beautifu...

After a first date, don't stress out if he doesn't call!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4934 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - I am a type A personality, prone to general anxiety. I'm all-around awkward. Every time I have a first date, I worry about whether the guy is going to call me or not. I look up articles, I ask questions, I read other people's questions about ...

We broke up, should we talk about it, or should I wait till I am over him/

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - I had a best friend. He told me he liked me, and as a matter of fact, I liked him as well. We kept talking everyday, everyday getting to know each other even better. Talked about everything. And 2 and a half weeks later he asked me to be his ...

I'm scared I may be pushing him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4934 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - I really like this guy i have known for a really long time. Recently i gave him my number and he has been txt me every day and i have hung out with him alot. We can set there and hold a conversation for hours. He seems like he really likes me but he ...

I don't know how to talk to girls

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

25 October 2010 (M) - Im 16 going on 17 and i haven't had a girlfriend since i was 7 or 8. im started to have the crushes on certain girls and i want to talk them but don't know how. people say be yourself but how can you be yourself when your nervous and all those other ...

Help me figure this girl out, and then proceed accordingly

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - oh my, ok so i joined a new school in kickboxing, co-ed, anyway i love it and am very focused when i go, but at the same time, there's this girl who i don't see every class (regina) and since the first time i saw her i noticed she keeps licking her ...

He's been hurt, how do I get him to give me a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - ok there is this guy i have known for two years we are like best friends and he's always going to me for advise but there's this one problem we both have feelings for each other but he's not ready to give anything a chance because he's still hurt ...

I missed my chance to date her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4933 days ago

25 October 2010 (M) - There's a girl that I think really liked me. She'd wait for me after class, text me, asked to hang out. On the other hand, she also has a bunch of good guy friends, and I didn't (and still don't) know if that was her normal level of interaction or ...

Women and songs?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

25 October 2010 (M) - Do women like it when you write them songs? I play guitar and record my own music, but don't sing. ...

Why would he kiss me more than once if he didn't have feelings for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4934 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - I was at a party the other night, Everyone was drinking except me, the adult and my ex. it was a fun night. we played truth or dare, i got dared to kiss my ex, and my best friend molly. so i kissed him. when everyone was passed ouut we decid...

He asked if I was going to talk to him, but he is the one who stopped talking to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - September 15th was the 3 year anniversary of my bf and I. On Monday, September 19th, he had got home from work and called me and told me his parents were arguing and his mom was packing up and "going to a tradeshow" for a week and left him $1000. My ...

For the girls: What do you notice when you look at a guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

25 October 2010 (?) - Girls what stands out when you look at guy?...

I took his money as a joke and he called me a thief and dumped me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - My problem is this: My bf and I were fighting lately and that night we were also arguing for silly stuffs. I regret for all my actions while I was drunk and I did things that I shouldnt do for example, that night, my bf and his brothers were pla...

Why does he only express interest during our class?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4934 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - So I am really frustrated right now. I am a college sophomore and there is a guy that I met during my freshman year who I really began to like. He was in my chemistry lecture first semester, so I decided to randomly introduce myself to him and we ...

Need help! How do I start a conversation with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4933 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - Hello. Im 13. In 5th grade, there was this guy named "A". We talked some. In 6th grade we werent in the same class. But in the hallway, he would always say my name in a weird way and give me this intense stare [he was trying to be funny, im sure,], ...

His friends don't like me and want us broken up! Advice?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for 5 months and everything is perfect.....except his friends. His friends don't like me because they think he's different when he's with me. But my boyfriend is the one who always wants to be with me and we ...

Does he really like me or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4934 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - Dear readers I'm now having a problem with my mind. My classmate is acting weird to me. Let me explain, in the eyes of friends I more like a younger sister so less chance to attract to someone. My emotion wasn't so steady and again not many people ...

Was he feeling guilty?Or..?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - My bf and I arranged our first weekend together in ages. He later told me he'd have to spend the first evening at his friend's birthday cos he felt bad for not going. I was a bit sad but understood and told him to go etc. He came home early though ...

He is pressuring me to have sex with him...help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - Hi everyone i need help bad! I'm 13 almost 14 and i'm dating a almost 17 year old. I really like him but he keeps pressuring me about sex. We already kiss, and I've given oral, but im not comfertable when i do it. He says i dont love him if i dont ...

I have this bad bad problem with my best friend and boyfriend! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4934 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - Hi, I have a problem my best friend is in love with me, but i have a boyfriend. We've been best friends since 1st grade, and i dont think of him that way only as a brother, we call and text and hang out a-lot, but he always makes me uncomfortable, ...

Does it sound like he's interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4934 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - ok so theres this guy, he has a girlfriend, but my guy friends have all said guys can have a girlfriend but like someone else at the same time. well ill just list the things he does that makes me wonder if hes interested or not. -whenever i enter th...

My parents won't like it, but should I keep dating him or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4934 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - ok, my parents dont allow me to date but i just got my very first boyfriend and im so excited bout it. when he asked me out i never thought bout it i just said yes cuz i liked him a lot and he liked me too. when i got home for the weekend i realize ...

He only texted me 4 times...Did I do something wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - So I MIGHT like this guy that goes to my schoool. He said he doesn't like hoes and I know I am not one of those. But today he only texted me like four times and im not gonna lie. it bothered me a little, But made me wanna have him that much more, ...

Does this girl really love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4934 days ago

25 October 2010 (M) - I am 15 years, there is this girl (pastor's daughter) she alway come to my place in the class, when she is living for her home after school closes she she alway like walking with me home, she even have a special name she calls me "sweet heart" but ...

How do I get my Mom to trust me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4934 days ago

25 October 2010 (?) - Well Me and My Boyfriend Have been together for 11months.. And are very open with each other. Yesterday my mom was out partying with a friend and i had the house to myself. I asked my boyfriend to come over and hang out. i had noooo intention of ...

Tell me..how does a person wake up one day and decide to fall out of love? Confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - I have been with someone since June, we spent all summer together and fell madly in love. She was the first to say I love you and reminded me everyday how perfect I was and how much she wanted a life with me and of course I feel the same way. She ...