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Dating: Help and advice

Pre cum problem...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4169 days ago

4 October 2010 (M) - i seem to have a problem. when i am with my girlfriend and we are getting horny etc.... when i get an erection i get a lot of pre cum. I dont like this at all, when she is going to go down my trousers, i have to stop her and get my penis out myself ...

I don't want to come across to her as desperate. What do I do here?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

4 October 2010 (M) - Hello everybody.. My girlfriend doesnt have time for me but i do not care . I love her so much its hard to let her go. I think i have annoyed her asking her to go out more often since she usually doesnt trust most people in her life. I pissed her ...

Do I confront him... or just leave it be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - Heres the thing: I am not proud of it but I snooped around a few years ago and found my boyfriend's password to his email. I checked it once and didn't find anything suspicious. I felt horrible for betraying his trust and privacy but, I never said ...

I like him too but I'm scared he will hurt me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - I am from Japan. I have been studying in U.S. I met one guy who really cool and handsome. He told me he likes me and wants to be my boyfriend. we already date once. I don't know much about American guys. What are their likes and don'ts? Can u guys ...

I don't know if it's wise to pursue her... advice needed!

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

4 October 2010 (M) - I am a man, I was in a long term relationship that ended and left me hurt. I tried to get back in the dating game but I found meeting available women very hard. Long story short, I was lonely and I answered an ad on CL one evening for a women who ...

Sex? I can take it or leave it...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - I'm 31 and my boyfriend is 28 and sometimes i dont wanna have sex but i do anyway, dont want him cheating on me, thats why i do it and now we live together what should i do?...

Do women tell their friends EVERYTHING about their boyfriends???

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

4 October 2010 (M) - Ok, to all women, do you talk to your best friends and tell them everything about your bf. i mean everything, like dirty details?...

My boyfriend's depression is really putting a strain on me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - Well there is this boy I have been dating for a few months and i like him a lot. Problem is he is very depressed and sensitive to everything so i have to watch what i say all the time. He is on anti-depressants but they don't seem to be working. I ...

Don't know how to snog.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - Okay, I'm 13, im really nervous about saying this... especially on here. I don't know how to snog/tongue my boyfriend. He says to me last week, "You won't even tongue me." And i don't know what to do! I don't know how to! Can somebody exp...

Would a girlfriend actually make me happy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

4 October 2010 (M) - I am 21 and can't get a girlfriend. I have been alone for almost 3 years now and it feels really bad. I keep hoping that I will meet the perfect girl for me, but it never happens. There are so many girls at uni, yet I can't seem to meet the right ...

Boyfriend caught on dating sites and texting other women...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - Hi I am new to this. I just did not know where else to turn. I have no one else to discuss this with. My boyfriend and i have been together 3 years. He is considerably older than me but it has never been an issue for either of us. WE get on ...

How do I deal with my boyfriend confessing he has no desire for sexual intercourse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - My question is how do I deal with my boyfriend confessing he has no desire for sexual intercourse? A year and a half before we met he found out he had prostate cancer. He had it removed, and right before we met he had surgery/ inflatable prosthetic. ...

What do I do? I want to get him back, because everything in me tells me that this is wrong.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - I don't know what to do. I started seeing this guy in July and by August we were a couple. He lived an hour and a half so we didn't see each other every day, but we constantly communicated. We told each other things that we'd never told anyone ...

He likes to dress up and put make up on... I'm scared he might be transexual!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - I have been w/my bf for almost a year, and a few months ago he told me he was a CD. I am pretty good with it - it's fun to dress up together, I do his make up, and we have a great time with it. This weekend was our first night of dressing up and ...

He says he CAN'T marry me!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - i trust him but he broke my trust but now I'm very worried what to do? i have to marry someone else but please please tell me how can i hide this from my futur husband that I'm not virgin. plssss plsss dont say that i should tell him the truth.... ...

He says I am too demanding, I say he is using me for his benefit!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - ok, I have asked questions on here before.. and now I just need to know it is not me. I am 47 years old, divorced woman 2 kids. I am finanically independent. I have been with the same man for 7 years. He is also 47 years old with 2 childre...

What steps would you take if you were in my position???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4946 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - Hi all. Quick bit of background... Was in a relationship with a guy from Apr-08 to Feb-10. He lived 100 miles away and he is 33, I am 21. We stayed in constant contact even after we broke up and a couple of months ago were taking things sl...

Am I only being driven by guilt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

4 October 2010 (M) - ok so. I broke up with my girlfriend a few months ago. we had been going out for a year and a half. it was a pretty harsh decision which i regret now. i thought i wanted to go out with other people but now that i am, i want her back. i had never ...

Long distance boyfriend doesn't crave to see me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - I've dated my bf for half a year before we turned into long-distance, so far it has already been one and half month of LDR. This morning I suggested to visit him during Christmas, but he said he's unsure about it. He said he wanted to see me for ...

Help! What can I do to enjoy sex more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - hi everyone, I'm a 19 year old female and me and my boyfriend have sex 2-3 times ever yday. i am not that into sex but i do it for him. he enjoys it a lot and i wanna enjoy it too but i dont know why i don't enjoy it that much. yea i kinda like it ...

Anxiety and depression linked to girlfriend, somehow just lost all feelings...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

4 October 2010 (M) - So my situation is an extremely long one, but I won't get into all the details I'll just say this: my current ex girlfriend and I had a great relationship, and my first relationship. Over the summer she went on a 3 day trip, and I went to visit ...

I never wanted to love him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4946 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - For a while now, I've been seeing this kind, stubborn, generous, difficult, intelligent, and hilarious man (Angelo). When I first met him, I really didn't think we'd make it far. But then, there was this instant chemistry and ease with each other ...

How to go from Facebook to dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - I've recently gotten out of a 15 year marriage and am ready to start dating again. I have found someone I'm interested in, but do not really want to make the first move. The guy is a friend on fb, who I grew up with. He seems to 'like' EVERYTHING ...

What can I do to fix it???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

4 October 2010 (M) - I'm just plain confused. My (ex) fiance told me "I'm just not in love with you anymore. After four years together I thought we were pretty much set and until just recently she seemed very much in love with me. But what I'm confused about is that ...

Should I tell her about my past? I'm afraid of what she might think!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

4 October 2010 (M) - I am 39 years old. I was raised in a house filled with deceit. Which is why I am writing today. I met a wonderful woman and have been together for 4 months. I believe in complete openness between lovers to help ensure the best compatibility. I have ...

He knows I like him, I think he likes me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - Hi, i know nearly every girl says this but i am really struggling to understand the male mind! I really need some advice on my current situation... This boy who i like, knows that i like him and i think he sort of feels the same way. I havent k...

The relationship changed after we slept together

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - Hello all, I used to be the greatest girl ever. The one who was cute, sweet, sexy, smart and funny. He was contacting me on a daily basis and every time we went out together it was clear that we liked each other very much. I am not the kind of ...

Newly separated and it's killing me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - We're 20, have been together for more than 6 months, and I moved 1000 miles away. We knew almost since we started dating that this day would come, but I haven't imagined we would mean this much to me. It's KILLING me, we separated only 5 days ago, ...

Is she trying to hint that she likes me? I want to tell her how I feel but I'm scared of messing up our friendship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

4 October 2010 (M) - I have been friends with this girl I have known for about a year now. At I thought of her only as a friend, but recently I have been developing feelings for her, which only get stronger every day. Last week I asked her if we could hang out togethe...

We never seem to do anything and I'm bored!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - help people please...i have been dating a lovely guy for 2 months now,we get on well but we never seem to do anything he gets up at 2am to go to the gym then he goes to work all day and calls me at night,i only see him at weekends because of our ...

I feel like no boy will ever want me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - hey, i know theres people much worse off people then me out there but im so fed up of my life. people have told me go get out there and meet new boys, as i was going for the wrong type (just wanted 1 thing). so i did this and met this boy i really ...

Whenever we go out I'm afraid my b/f is looking at other girls

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - How can i get over my insecurities? Every time me and my boyfriend go out to anywhere out of our house i cant help but to think he's looking at all other girls. he's admitted to looking at other girls in the past but he says he hasnt really don...

He keeps dreaming of kissing this girl!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - Okay, so this guy I've really fallen for told me that he had a dream of kissing a girl that he had a mega major crush for almost a year last year and asked her out twice but she turned him down but yeah, he still had a dream about kissing her and ...

Should I open up to this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - I am a freshman girl (14yrs old) and there's a junior guy (16-17) who really likes me. At first, he started being nice to me, making me laugh, etc. and I knew that he was sending me signals that he likes me so I told him that I didn't like him at ...

Plans went awry and now I'm a bit confused and irritated

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - 'Ello, Aunts and Uncles. I've got a bit of a conundrum for ya and I appreciate any advice offered. Honestly, I would like to see more male opinions on this than female. However, all advice is welcome, read, and appreciated, lovelies! :] I met a g...

Weird behaviour -- is she breaking up with me, or pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

4 October 2010 (M) - I have been dating this girl for almost a year now. The situation is complicated. She is married, her husband knows it is over. They sleep in seperate rooms just in the same house until her house sells. Neither one of them can afford to the morgage ...

Can someone help me to stop this streak of bad luck with guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - Lately, I've been really lonely. All of my bestfriends are in amazing relationships. They always tell me how amazing it is to have a boyfriend, and that feels amazing. I want to feel that. I'm 15 and never had a boyfriend. Every time I start to ...

Is he just trying to break it off in a nice way? or is he legit?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - I recently ran into an old classmate on a social networking website. We exchanged text messages multiple times a day and even spoke for hours at a time on the phone. We made plans to get together, being that we live an hour and a half away from one ...

How do I come about asking him to be in a long distance relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - i met this guy in april. we had a strong connection but did nothing to act on it. we remained friends and kept in contact. last month, i was at an official event in his hometown which he knew about. we decided to visit. we went out the first night, ...

How do I date in a small town with no guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - I Have been single for some time and I am ready to move on. I really dont know how to do this, I live in a really small town ( aka no guys). I go to college all day long then work so I really never met anyone new. I have done the online stuff. I ...