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Is this the G spot or something else?

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Question - (30 October 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 October 2010)
A male United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

When I put my finger inside my girlfriend's vagina and move it along the front wall, the first (i.e. closest to the opening to the vagina) thing I feel is a bit of an uneven or rough patch that is perhaps three-quarters of an inch wide by one inch long. This spot seems to be where the pubic bone is, because it is quite firm and it doesn't "give" if I push on it. This spot fits the descriptions of the G spot I've read. Further in, it feels smooth and I can push my finger up somewhat. At this point, it feels like I am curling my finger around her pubic bone. If I put my middle finger as far in as I can (I have fairly long fingers), I can feel a bulge or protrusion of some sort on the front wall of the vagina. This bulge is very hard to describe, but I would say it is roughly the shape of a large fish oil capsule, but slightly larger. Using the fish oil capsule analogy, it feels as if it protrudes down (towards the vaginal opening) at about a 30 degree angle, and I can push it back and forth somewhat with my finger tip (something like pushing back and forth on the tipe of your nose)

My girlfriend tells me she thinks I'm stimulating her G spot when I move my finger tip around on the smooth spot just past her pubic bone, and when I move my finger tip back and forth across the inner bulge/protrusion. But, neither of these spots fit the description of the G spot that I've read, and my best guess is that she's actually feeling the base of my finger on her G spot, not the tip of my finger further in.

Does anyone have any idea what this inner bulge/protrusion is? I do feel the end of my penis moving past a bulge of some sort when I thrust deep, and I suspect it's the same inner bulge. My girlfriend is only 5'1" tall, and I wondered if the bulge is her cervix. But, I have a hard time believing this is what it is. First, from what I've read, it seems like the cervix would be too far in to reach it with one's finger. Also, from what I've read, most women find touching the cervix to be painful, but my girlfriend seems to like it when I touch this spot. Also, as far as I can tell, there's no protruding ring around the inner bulge. From what I've read, it seems to me I'd probably feel a ring of some sort.

I've searched high and low on the internet, but I can't find any description of anything like this anywhere?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2010):

Probably her cervix. My cervix is only tender around ovulation, other than that I dont mind it being bumped. Im a woman and I still do not know where my g spot is but I do know I have one and I know when my bf finds it. It seems like with more foreplay and anticipation the g spot becomes more sensitve.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2010):

The rough spot is probably closer to where her G-spot is. THe smoother, rounded object is likely her bladder. Her cervix is probably further up, and if you felt it, it would feel like a hard rubber o-ring, and definitely like an orifice. THe cervix can be felt with a finger (after all, thats how gynos feel it), but during sex the vagina elongates and the cervix rides a bit higher. If you're endowed enough or she is shallow enough, you might feel it with the head of your penis. Touching the cervix does not seem to induce pain...poking it maybe.

My GF's G-spot is right about at the junction of where that rough spot and smooth spot join. Trust me...she lets me know ;) She also says she can feel a G-spot orgasm in her clit and vice versa. If you hook your finger toward her front, it puts more pressure on it and tickles it. But, every woman is different. I'm convinced some women dont have a g-spot, but orgasm from clitoral stimulation moreso. Some need a combination of clit and deep thrusting. Some have to have you thrust and bump the G-spot if you can. Some women dont come no matter what.

I find the female anatomy and orgasm fascinating, and consider myself a bit of a virtuoso on finding what makes them REALLY happy sexually. Some amazing things happen when you press all the right buttons.

Have fun!

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