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writes:im not use to all this, but ima do my best. I've been wit this chick, she the most amazing girl i ever met, but i dont really know much about having a serious relationship,, like i been talking to her everyday on the phone, and im running out of conersation to talk to her about, i dont know, i just need some tips on this realionship thing,or advice on what to do and what not to do, PLAESE!!! be honest, i need this Reply to this Question
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (29 July 2010):
One- Talk less, listen more.
Two- She is not chick, she is a woman, start treating her like one.
Three- Listen to her and understand where she is coming from.
Four- If you listen hard enough she will let you know how she wants you to make her feel...Then do it.
Five- Let see, oh yeah!! LISTEN and LEARN.
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reader, Lookingforwisdom  +, writes (29 July 2010):
I've been through the early stage of not knowing what to say to my girlfriend, but as you get more comfortable with each other that dilemna passes with time. Think how you act around your family and how relaxed the environment is, ideally you will want to have a similar sort of thing with your girlfriend after a while (ie you don't constantly try and think of interesting or impressive things to say). Be yourself and that should be enough. I would advise not to overdo it with phone calls, instead try and see each other a good amount of the time, but don't overdo it because then you'll have all your eggs in one basket (ie keep seeing your mates, keep up old hobbies etc). Make it clear to her that any form of cheating, flirting with other guys, or hanging out with other guys is not acceptable and you won't tolerate it. This has worked for me anyway, I literally never have a paranoid thought in my head with my girlfriend because we are so honest and open with each other. You also need to make sure you are totally committed to being true to her. If not things will get very messy.
Good luck I hope it goes well for you.
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