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anonymous
writes:I always tell men am in luv with them and they reject me, why is this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2010): Stop telling random men that you LOVE them!
Most likely you feel ATTRACTION for them. Love is another thing entirely and attraction only clouds minds and hearts, making your search for a good boyfriend much more difficult.
Search for a virgin WITH good personal qualities and date him with the aim of getting married someday. You'll shave years off the learning curve and you'll never regret you did, believe me. Well, if you value your time, that is.
Or if you prefer, you can always spend decades to learn - the hard way - that what I suggested above is the only way to find true and lasting happiness.
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female
reader, candygirl_iraq  +, writes (29 July 2010):
Men like to do the chasing. I know these days we hear and read a lot about women taking control of what they want and making the first move,but thats against nature in my opinion. I dont know a case where a girl actually walks up to a guy and says I love you that worked out.Its ok to send signals,maybe some smart flirting...but I love you are three words that get even couples confused. Get more confidence and let them ALWAYS approach you.Its how they like and it saves you the bad feeling of rejection.
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reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (29 July 2010):
 You haven't told us enough about yourself, the men or what has happened for us to give you a good answer. Could you give us more details about your problem please?
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