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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I recently began dating a friend of a friend. We met about a month ago, and in the last few weeks have gone out about 6 or 7 times. I know he is in a long distance relationship, though he has only alluded to it, ambivalently, once (the night we met- a social event). Last year, I too was in a long distance relationship that, for me, was over long before we officially broke things off. I assumed this was similar and felt a grace period would be admissible. I have begun to think that he will not take action (ahem, choose) on his own. However, our mutual friends have noted over and over what a stand-up guy he is. How do I approach the matter? How do I reconcile my desire for a relationship with the worry, "At what point in our relationship will he do this to me?"
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2010): Its not fair on the woman long distance that he is dating and you should confront him about how you feel, just tell him you dont think its right, just go with your heart however if his doing this to someone now, you never know if he will do the same to you, good luck hope it all works well xx
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