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writes: Hello everyone! I'm having this problem and would love you guys help with this situation I'm having. First off I met this guy that's a year younger than me, and I'm 22 by the way, and from the first time we met he was up front with me about his life. He told me that he had 2 kids. I was ok with that because he takes care of his kids and he spends time with them all the time. We have been talking for 3mnths, and everyday he made me feel like he was interested because he would call me everyday and all through the day. We get alone really well, and don't have any arguments or anything. He seems like the type of guy I have been waiting for. I'm confused right now because for a week now he hasn't called, answered my phone calls or, returned my phone calls. Also, I think one day he actually picked the phone up and hung up! I know I haven't done anything to have made him act like this towards me. Also, he would tell me how he really likes me and feeling me. I know he's not ready for a relationship and all that cause he's told me. We decided that we were going to take it slow and see where it goes. I was cool with that because, I not too long come out of a horrible relationship and I wanted things to go the right way between us. I haven't called him in 6days but its killing me! I really miss him a lot cause he was actually a stand up guy. He even told me if he were ready for another relationship that it would be with me, and I would be the one he would let meet his mom. Can someone please help me, cause I'm really confused as to why he just stop calling me out the blue if we were getting alone just fine. And one more thing, we never had sex in those three months and we hung out like a few times.
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (30 November 2009):
 CaringGuy gives you great advice, I agree with him.
No one on here can tell you why he stopped calling you out of the blue...but the bottom line is, and it's all you need to know, is that he lost interest for whatever reason.
There is no use in trying to figure out why because it won't change anything and it won't help you move on. He didn't have the guts to tell you what happened so in my opinion you should not call him anymore. If his ignorance has nothing to do with you he will be back but don't hold your breath.
If you were that important to him he would not have done what he has done. Let him go, you're better than that.
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (29 November 2009):
 It all boils down to he's not interested in you anymore. Some guys like to fade away rather than tell a women it just isn't working for them. Cowardly, but it happens.Move on, and good luck doing so.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 November 2009):
Maybe he wasn't the stand up guy you thought he was. Maybe he thought you'd just be interested in sex and he couldn't wait? When a guy is interested that much, he doesn't just cut contact. It sounds to me like he was all talk and no action. Don't call him at all again. I'm sure you're hurt, but I think he didn't have the guts to tell you he wasn't interested, and has moved on. You now need to move on as well.
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