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writes: Hi,I fell in love with my bestfriends girlfriend we are soul mates we really love each other the circumstances we got together were not that great because my ex best friend didnt like.I didnt want to betray him but I was really in love and she loved me too we never made any physical contact or nothing until she ended things with my friend.I made a huge sacrifice for love it was no out of Jealousy or selfishness but pure love. I dont regret anyting but most people say it is wrong to fall in love with your best friends girl I never planned it just happened.They had a horrible relationship not that im making excuses but they did my friend cheated on her alot and lied to her alot I couldnt get involved because i DIDNT NO HER THAT WEE BUT ONCE WE GOT TO NO EACH OTHER we got really close we did not have a relationship behind my friends back but we did talk alot. I love her so much she is heavenly.I have no reason to regret my actions but I just want to know if your willing to make the sacrifice whats so wrong in falling in love.Im so scared i will lose her we dont have a perfect love story but we are trully in love any similar stories like this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2009): I guess you did the right thing ... friend of yours did not deserve her (most likely) ... I sense I are a great person for you are sorry and you feel you have betrayed a friend ... but you did it wisely and not back stabbing like a friend of mine did to me long time ago ... enjoy and dont worry, especcially not for loss for it will get you mentaly, if loss happens know that another women you will fall in love with will be granted the same feeling for beeing the only one for you by you ... it's like it's ment to be that way ... so that you feel total devotion to a person you are currently with for you see nothing else ... and if 2 love and offer the same to each other that it is heaven and I personally think that this is the best feeling that occurs even with a gaze or a touch ... I know that when I touch the woman I love I feel salvation and feeling I can't describe ... I just know I love her and love to be able to hug her and give her my energy ... enjoy :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2009): I guess you did the right thing ... friend of yours did not deserve her (most likely) ... I sense I are a great person for you are sorry and you feel you have betrayed a friend ... but you did it wisely and not back stabbing like a friend of mine did to me long time ago ... enjoy and dont worry, especcially not for loss for it will get you mentaly, if loss happens know that another women you will fall in love with will be granted the same feeling for beeing the only one for you by you ... it's like it's ment to be that way ... so that you feel total devotion to a person you are currently with for you see nothing else ... and if 2 love and offer the same to each other that it is heaven and I personally think that this is the best feeling that occurs even with a gaze or a touch ... I know that when I touch the woman I love I feel salvation and feeling I can't describe ... I just know I love her and love to be able to hug her and give her my energy ... enjoy :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2009): I know exactly how u feel,same thing happend with me, i fell for my best friends boyfriend, you dont really expect it to happen but then you click with sum1 its hard to get them out of your head and heart.Everyone told me i was wrong aswell because this girl was one of my bestest friends (shes not now obv)I didnt want to hurt her and he didnt either but in these situations its soo difficult and sumone is always going to get hurt wether its u or themeventually my now BF broke up with his ex ( my ex best friend) to be with me, people still snarl when they see us together but hey love conquers all!!hope everything worked out for the best for you tho :) x
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