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writes:I'm 19 years old and i have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have a baby together but I'm not sure if he still loves me or not?? He tells me that i need to change and dont know what i need to change?? When i ask him he tells me "everything" and i dont want to so what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, BlueBag  +, writes (18 November 2009):
 You need to sit down and have a proper adult conversation with him and ask specifically what he wants you to change because "everything" is completely vague and a very childish thing to say.
If he really does want you to change everything about yourself then why the hell are you together? He clearly doesn't love you if there is nothing about you that he likes...
So find out and go from there. Keep us posted :)
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reader, empop +, writes (18 November 2009):
If he had a few specific habits he wanted you to change, that would be one thing, but to tell you to change "everything" is cruel.
He may still love you, but I don't think it's healthy for you to stay with him. Relationships take more than love, and he certainly doesn't respect you if he tells you things like that. I know things are probably difficult because you have a baby, but I think you should think about if you really want to be in a relationship with someone like that.
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reader, Shan25 +, writes (18 November 2009):
When someone loves you they love all of you. its not you its more likely him. it seems like he wants someone else. god created you and he also created the other half of you and the other half of you will accept you as you no matter what because to your other half life without your touch smile conversation everything will be too much to live without. its crazy and tough but we have to good thru the not so good to get to mr right for us
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