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Is he interested or just blowing me off?

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Question - (18 November 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 November 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *oannaa88 writes:

I met M two weeks ago through a common friend of ours. He liked me and I liked him but nothing happened. A few days later we were talking on facebook and he suggested we go have drinks. We finally went out on a date and in the end he ended up coming over to my place and we slept together. Next morning as well. We had a good time and throughout the entire night and the next day he kept making references to how we will see each other in the future. a couple of days later i texted him to ask him smt random we were talking about (not having anything to do with us meeting up) and when i asked him what he was up to he said that he was busy at the office all day and he wanted to meet up with me but we couldnt cuz i had uni the next day. i then texted him that we should meet up some time this week and he texted back that he could only do tomorrow(which i couldnt) and that next time hes available is next wednesday and that weekend so i should book my time asap lol. i knew he wasnt available this weekend btw beforehand. what does this mean? does he really want to see me or is he just blowing me off? should i text back or let him make a move IF he makes a move..

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A female reader, BlueBag United Kingdom +, writes (18 November 2009):

BlueBag agony auntHe might genuinely be a very busy person. I used to have a boyfriend who had a lot of commitments outside of work and our relationship and I didn't get to see him that often.

That being said, I wouldn't get your hopes up too much just incase he is making excuses. If he was interested in meeting you then he would chase you. So don't ask to meet up for a while and see if he attempts to make the arrangements. If he doesn't then you have your answer, he's not interested.

Give it a go. But please don't get your hopes up.

Keep us posted :)

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A female reader, Shan25 United States +, writes (18 November 2009):

it sounds like he got want he wanted. if someone wants you they will always make time for you. trust and believe. no matter what when a man wants you he will call more text more come see you take you out everything but if not he will answer your calls sometimes because he does not want to be mean but it hopes you will just get the picture

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