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writes:I really want to give things with my exgirlfriend another go and i think she does too but im scared she will turn me down.We were together for 9 months a few years ago, and we're were very close. I stupidly dumped her when she became depressed because i couldnt handle the fights we'd have. I regretted it almost straight away but she refused to take me back after she'd heard id told shown my parents private emails she'd sent me regarding her depression. I didnt mean to be cruel i just needed advice and they told me to dump her. A month or so ago she added my brother on facebook and since her profile is public i had a look and saw she'd started a new college course so i sent her a message wishing her luck. I was shocked when she replied and we started talking. We met up 3 weeks ago and it was really good. She says she misses me and part of her still loves me but she's not sure it would work. Can anyone help me with some tips on showing her i have changed and want her back!
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reader, Shan25  +, writes (18 November 2009):
My ex did the exact same thing. we i started to go thru my rough pact he up and left me blaming everything on the arguements. it hurts for someone to leave you at your weakest moments. if she takes you back she will not be that trusting with her heart to you because she will think you might leave her again but if you want her back dont play with her she's had enough pain
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 November 2009):
Actions speak a lot louder than words, so that means you now have to be a great friend to her before anything else. Be there for her, listen to her and show her you are trustworthy. Talk to her about how she feels and listen to everything she says. You need to prove that you are there for her no matter what. Hopefully, she'll see that you are sincere, and she'll give you a second chance.
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