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30-35,
*rtistical_bumblebee
writes: in a relationship with a fairly controlling boyfriend. he gets jealous of every guy i go out with or dance with when we are clubbing. i wanted to try rock climbing and he told me i don't have the upper strength and would suck at it. i said i wanted to try it and if i don't like it i don't like it. tryed it and want to stick with it. went clubbing two weeks ago and he was lovely to me gve me hugs and kissed then disappeared for the rest of the time. i went home told him i was off and wanted to catch up with me. then the week after he kept disappearing then coming back. to tackle this i made an effort of dissapearing just as i saw him returning. then he text me to ask where i was. i havent seen him properly in a week hes been texting me on and off ive been very stressed and tired because i suffer with insomnia he was less than sympathetic when i saw him on friday bumped into him and was overly sarcastic saying awh poor you ive got a lecture now why are you still talkiing to me for? i thought sod you then and walked off he shouted back bye dear. i ignored him then he text me 4 hours later sayign he missed me and wanted to see me i didn't text back then he rang me 3 times at work but i couldn't ansaw my phone he knows what shift i work. rang him after work he didn't reply i went back to my parents for the weekend and he text me asking me where i was and what i was doing i didn't text back and not heard from him since.hes not really made an effort to see me this week and i thought if he wants to see me that bad he should get off his arse and see me. what do you make to all of this ? i got a bit confused by his behaviour i first thought maybe he didn't like me and i was going to end it, but then he said he missed me and its all very confusing. any help would be lovely thank you xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2009): I think you should read what you have written and look for the places where you are playing games. The two of you are playing games. It is time for you both to sit down and talk about the situation.
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reader, PixiePie  +, writes (1 November 2009):
 he is a very immature childish guy who is lowering you to his playing field because he doesn't feel, consciously or otherwise, that he is good enough for you.
leave him alone and let him come crawling back to you. when he grows up a bit, then you can start talking through things adultly.
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