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writes:Me and the girl I'm seeing are talking about getting more serious but the thing is.. I can't help fantasising about another girl who's just my friend whom casually flirts with me.Does this mean I may become unfaithful in a relationship?I mean, I'm a guy and guys normally can't control themselves.. I'm not the cheating type but maybe I will do what the dirty and regret it dearly..Is it wrong to fantisise about girls who I personally know whilst in a relationship?
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reader, babyminow  +, writes (20 May 2009):
 okay fantaising about this girl really isnt to much to worry about. some of my friends have said they have fantasised with their friends moms but i honestly doubt they will ever get the 'dirty' with their moms. if you realy like this other girl i would stick with her. but if you like your friend and may want to make her as more than just a friend, not just for the physical stuff but also mentally to. then i would talk to her and get her opinion. the worst thing you could do is move into things to fast or mess up something amazing when your not sure who or what you want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): First of all, your gender has nothing to do with your choice to control your thoughts.
Here's the guideline: control your thoughts in a way that you would want your partner to control hers.
When you are in a committed relationship, it is healthy to sexually fantasize about your partner.
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