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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I feel at age i should have at least one decent boyfriend, a nice genuine guy but i have none. Any guy i like turned out to be rotten to me always been nasty to me. i feel guys have more opportunity to meet girls because girls are chasing guys around the place, sending valantine cards and emailing him and adding him as a friend to face book and always been the topic of conversation at lunch break in the office about some guy and finding out about where they live, guys don't have to lift finger any more because the girls are doing all the work, so it's easy for a guy. I don't to go around being desperate like that. What do girls sound like doing that? Do i have do that to get a guy chase a guy, send him emails find out where he lives, finding him face do i have to that. is there not easer to meet without looking so desperate to make a whore out myself and throe myself at any guy .I'm looking a boyfriend with out making holy show out myself. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2009): You're wrong about something: most guys chase girls, not the reverse... I am a guy, and that's what I see from here.NOT WHERE I AM. THE GIRLS DO ALL THE CHASING
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2009): I feel sad for thoses girls and the boys do get it easier, a little too easy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2009): I wish I had an answer for you! Sometimes it's just easier enjoying being single!
I believe it will happen when you're Not looking for anyone! Those are the best relationships! I hate feeling desparate! And I can tell you do too!
I am almost twice your age so it makes it even harder...you will meet someone when you least expect it. Try to work on yourself while you have the time and opportunity (sometimes men get in the way of self-improvement projects)
Don't get discouraged it will happen without you having to act desparate, chase guys, or do anything below your standards! Stick to your scruples!
Good Luck
Britt
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reader, DLover  +, writes (19 May 2009):
You're wrong about something: most guys chase girls, not the reverse... I am a guy, and that's what I see from here.
I decided I would go on a dating site this fall (give yourself a time helps to prepare for it). I think you should do the same. Get a good picture of yourself by a professionnal, but don't photoshop it, make a good profile, check for english error (no error = smarter, in my eyes).
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