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36-40,
*rokenheart24/7
writes:Is there something wrong with me?Every time I fall in love, I do it with the wrong person, the one that does not love me back. For the first time I found someone (one of my best friends) who i thought felt the same for me, but he's been in a committed relationship for over 5 years. I decided to put some distance between us because I dont think what he feels for me is strong enough to break up with his actual GF, otherwise he would have approached me already. I'm always depressed because i've never felt that conection with anyone else. I'm 22 years old and I've never had a BF. I've gone on dates (three guys) but even though I was willing to try, I dont think they found me attractive or interesting enough. I'm starting to feel that I'm not good enough for anyone, and this scares me because i'm afraid I'll never find someone. Please help me!
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reader, miamiheat31 +, writes (19 May 2009):
I think that you like guys that are hard-to-get, or don't seem to be easy. Basically, a challenge.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (19 May 2009):
 hun everyone gets stages like this.you will find someone to love.just need to keep getting out there show them all what they're missing out on with you enjoy yourself have a laugh with mates guys like to see a girl smiling and having a laugh with her mates.go out for drinks enjoy life and before you know it someone will be there someone you've never expected and it'll happen when you least expect it.you don't find love, love finds you.trust me i get depressed at times but i think of everything i've been through as a lesson and i learn from it and use that to my ability and and get much stronger within myself.love will find you don't you worry about that.for now just enjoy life stay out late chill with friends go cinema's or whatever you like doing.if you need to talk about this any further please don't hesitate to message me :)
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