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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ok, here is a question, I am 25 and have never had a boyfriend (not by lack of trying), everytime I go out with work or friends, guys hit on me but never want anything more, for some reason guys just wont date me and I don't understand why, I have an alright job, I am normal looking (size 10, 5'4) maybe a little shy but all my friends are getting married or moving in with their boyfriends and I cant even get a date with a guy, it is starting to get me down, if guys find me attractive enough it must be my personality or is it just I am just meeting the wrong guys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009): Well, if guys hit on you, then that invariably means you COULD get dates. So its something else. Something about how you carry yourself or react to their flirting, perhaps. There is really no way for me to know.Oftentimes I've seen this happen with some girl friends of mine, though: They have their sight set on ONE specific guy, to the exclusion of all else. And they don't even notice the shyer guy trying to get their attention, or the slightly less attractive guy that is orbiting around them, because they want that one guy. And that one guy doesn't want them, or just plays games.Do you tend to target only one guy? A fairly unobtainable type? If so, I'd say be more observant and appreciative of all your opportunities, instead of being so specific.
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