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writes:I need some help/advice. I am 26 years of age and have never had a boyfriend or intimate with a guy if you catch my drift. I have kissed one guy recently and I kinda liked it but I ended up pulling away because he made me feel how excited he was, which kinda freaked me out. I know we all have to start somewhere but this guy just wants a bit of "fun" and I really want too but I feel to scared and I can't expain to him because well I am 26 and it shouldn't be a big deal, my friends all say I should go for it and gain experience but like I said I am scared, why cant I just let go and go for it why do I always freeze, I mean this guy is hot and I have no idea why he wants me but I am glad he does even just for "fun" but I don't want to tell him you know. HELP!!I haven't been with anyone because no one had ever shown an interest before.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (26 March 2009):
Do you really want "some fun?"
Or deep down do you want your first time to be with a boyfriend?
If you are happy to just get rid of it, and think you are prepared for all the MASSIVE emotions that go with it and won't feel used or dirty then go for it.
If you want a guy who will hold you and work up to losing your virginity then hold out.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009): I wish I could go back. Don't do anything you may regret. Keep it as long as you can
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reader, passionatelynumb  +, writes (26 March 2009):
 Its your virginity to give up, but what if you meet the man of your dreams next month. Would you regret wasting it on this guy?
If the answers is no then go for it, but you've held out for this long, might as well make it special.
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