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female
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anonymous
writes:Thanks all, for taking the time to read and help.Im 35 divorced (happy n giving person) I met somone she is a female married. This is my coworker, and I am really new too bisexual scene.( I have only kissed a girl 4 yrs ago) Why so long -well , I want it to mean somthing, who I choose to be with... Please do'nt think I went out to pursue her, that would be farthest from the truth.. When I met her somthing just clicked in me, it was like I already new her... Since then, we have long gazes and flirt with each other big time.. Coworkers notice it, they dont say anything but it's writen on there faces.. The eye contact is just so intense.. Knowing she married I stopped - on my end - I have been having a up hill battle because she has been seeking me out- like wiggling her butt right at me (not the side 2 side -but the roll of the hips one) I finally caved after a month of trying so hard just to keep as a friend hi /bye thing. Now her friend sits on one side of me and her friends gross boyfriend sits on the other. Fri. the friends boyfriend, when I was talking to the girl I like friend real loud goes "U too stop flirting with each other and get to work" I was in shock - and no I had not been flirting one bit- my face turn red and I felt like I was going to get sick.. When the girl I like frnd gets up then comes back with the girl i like walking in front of her-. Nothen was said I was staring at the computer, and deeply embarrsed - and mad because the girl I liked must have told them somthing-( which I have felt like somthen was going on like a scheme on those three) -I honsetly thought I was going to get sick - needless to say the girl I liked came back there 4 times walking by just looking at me-.After that I was embaressed and scared to go back to workn Sat. But I thought - I was really rude and freaked out - I would apologize because I was not intrested in the girl beside me- and me acting like that probably hurt her feelings.. So I told her sorry I hurt your feeling on fri- she was trying to play stupid and get me to say - what her boyfriend said - so I said look if you dont rember then it was not important - I just wanted to due the right thing.Well when I came back from talking with a supervisor - the girl I liked was at my desk- and it was weird -when she seen me look at her -like what are you doing she hoped out and stood beside her friend ( I think she was touching my things or going to sniff my lotion. When I sat down she goes " girlie, and pinching my upper arm forgot to due your report. When a coworker looked at me and said somthen not to nice she stopped and turned around and said somthen to her then came back and said " while playfully pinch my upper arm girlie you forgot to do you report... So I am confused - MY question's1. Any advice?2. Does this girl I like - really like me back?3. Is she testing me with her friend? 4. what should I do? I really have feelings for her, but I am so scared on the what if factor - thanks for any advice..
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2009): this looks sooo like this question:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-have-a-thing-for-a-girl-at.html
my answers are probably the same...
if you feel for her just talk to her...
Star.x.
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