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writes:ok so there is this girl, we met about 2 months ago and the way we met i thought we was supposed to be together, we started seeing each other and it was all good. just recently ive started to feel so comfortable in holding her hand and kissing her, and i could tell her anything. she told me that i was the only one she wanted and that shes really fallen for me, that she loves me. she went to a party saturday night whith a freind and a couple of boys, one of them was her ex, she told me again that everything is ok and nothing is goin to happen. the next day i rang her and we talked like nothing was up before she passed me to her friend and her exact words were ..."jasmine doesnt kno how to tell you this but she is goin out with adam" ... (her ex) i talked to jasmine and gave it one last push to win her over as she told me that she still loves me but she loves adam aswell. so i wasnt too pushy and i made it as easy as i could for her to tell me to f*** off while still making it clear that i love her. later on in the day i rang her again and she told me tht we were over and we had no chance so i left it at that. now im so beat up about this and i dont kno if its just me or not but i think what she has done is plain mean, im begging to feel like she played me like a fool for the last month as i did everything i could to spent time with her and literally paid over 100 pounds on the phone to ring her up. isit just me that thinks she is harsh or do you think i was over in love with this girl??? thx for reading
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (17 March 2009):
 i don't think you loved her maybe it was nice to finally share some decent talk with someone and like feeling comfortable to talk to her about stuff but it was a bit childish for her to get her friend to tell you that she's moved on that is a bit harsh.trust me i'm a girl we are cows at times we really are.maybe you enjoyed the feeling of being wih someone else in the manner of holding hands and kissing being there to care for someone maybe why you feel so gutted maybe you thought things were going to get somewhere further like a relationshipdon't beat yourself up you don't deserve it you deserve someone really special :)chin up
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reader, LilWun23  +, writes (17 March 2009):
i dont really believe the fact that either one of you love one another, but i do think you were nearly falling for her, clearly she didnt love you because if she did she would have taken you to the party or not gone to the party at all because her ex was thereto me if sounds like a plan to try to play it off evidently because she didnt have the guts to tell you face to face that she was still going out with her exyou have a good heart and you deserve someone who can atleast give you a little respect as to being honest with you from scratch.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2009): Welcome to life. I don't know about love for her, i think you felt lust for her and its a tough break. but the way to look at it is all the rubbish relationships that you have at that age are really preparing you for THE one that will appear later.
Its hard, its tough and getting over them never gets easier. But they are worth it and it will happen again.
Hugs, Star.x.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2009): i think your ex was harsh. she foolishly led you on when it seems that she wasnt properly over her ex.she took it too fast with you and the fact that she got her friend to dump you over the phone is just immature and just shows hw much she really cared about you.This must have been so hard for you and Im sorry that this silly girl did this.I think you should forget about. Dont waste any more time, effort or money on trying to get her back as your better off without her. You sound like a really sweet and caring guy and trust me you'll find someone else :) x
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