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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been with my girlfriend for quite some time now and we have a good sex life. The only problem is that when she is horny she won't make a move on me in case I don't want to have sex. If we're both horny then it's fine and if just I'm horny usually I just start pawing at her and most of the time I can get her in the mood. But if she's horny and I'm not she won't do anything which gets her frustrated while I'm sat there completely oblivious.I've tried to explain to her that she should just come on to me - it's not that hard to get me going but she won't out of fear I'll reject her.Any suggestions?
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reader, Neboraic +, writes (18 March 2009):
This is going to take training and reassurance.
Its a fear, and just like any other, she has to face it, head on.
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female
reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (17 March 2009):
This is one of these things that if she can't bring herself to do something about it then she is just going to have to stay frustrated.
There is no way to get her over this if she is not willing to try.
She only probably has to do it once and then she'll get some confidence.
Just tell her that you are NOT going to reject her, and if she wants you then you will be there.
Then you have to leave her to it and FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THAT IS GOOD, do not reject her even slightly when she does make a move.
Good Luck!! xx
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